Well, shoot me if you want, but I'm going to defend the people on the "secret" forum. I have NO clue what has gone down in the last few days, I've been dealing with some serious personal family issues...
Many of you don't know me as I haven't been a regular poster in a long time, but you can tell by my number of posts, I used to be very active. However, I have been here and have kept up with most of the stuff that goes on here. This forum is NOT always a happy place and some of you rip others to shreds just for the fun of it I think. That is one of the reasons I no longer post much. However, there are many many people on here with good hearts and that's what keeps me coming back. I just no longer share my personal life here...
That said, I am one of the members of THAT forum. It's NOT a secret forum, that's just silly. It's a forum where a group of like-minded, open-minded individuals have gathered to share their stories and their lives. Everyone in that group has experienced things that most "normal" or "average" people haven't. Most people don't quite understand us, yet we understand each other very well because we have so many similar traits. We are a support group for people with unique gifts or talents that many people just do not understand or are not willing ot understand.
NOW, I'm going to say, that I know all of the people on that forum have hearts of gold and would do ANYTHING for someone in need. I was not part of whatever went down, but I do know that no harm could have been meant by it.
Don't any of you have "off" days where things get to you and you want to act out? I know I do. I don't know what happened, but I'm gathering my friends may have just had an "off" time and were trying to vent some? It happens to the best of us and those of you who think it doesn't are not being honest with yourselves.
So, like I said, shoot me if you want
I really couldn't care less. I just don't want to see people drug through the mud on either side of this situation. To anyone who was hurt by anything that happened, on either side of it, my sympathies to you and I hope you can move past it...Lifes too short to hold grudges...
((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) to all!!!!