kingminihorses
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Hi everyone,
I just need to let off some stress and frustration, I hope you all dont mind. My son, Hayden, is 21 months old. He was born with bilateral Adductus Metatarsus (his feet turned inward and toes curled under when walking) and so he was a little late walking. It was understandable since he has to wear corrective shoes and so when he wasn't saying a word by 12-13 months we just figured he was going to be a little late since he was wasnt even walking yet. Well by 18 months I expressed my concerns to our doctor and was told its normal for boys to be behind. Although I agreed I still contacted our local ECI/child find and they came right out to screen him for a developmental delay. He qualified for services and we have worked with them for about 3 months now. It was suggested to get a hearing test done since he was Not mimmicking any words and rarely babbled(plus I have a family history of hearing impairment). Since our insurance is not good it took about a month to finally get a referral to the audiologist and have an appointment set!
That appointment was today and it has been a difficult day for me. The first thing they did was a 'pressure' test to check for fluid. His left ear was a 'flat line' which means that he has very little hearing if any in that ear. His right ear did show a small 'peak' so we know that he has some hearing in it. What was so heartbreaking was the next part of the test. We were taken to a sound proof room and sat in a chair with a speaker on each side. The lady called his name over and over and made different noises in the left speaker....he just sat in my lap, picking at his blanket. then she did the same thing in the right speaker and he just sat there still as can be looking at the toy car we brought. No response.
I could feel the tears coming at that point. The audiologist said that there really is no way to know if after the tube surgery he will have good hearing. I am sure that it will help a whole lot but it just sickens me that all this time I thought he was being needy and not talking was out of him not wanting to listen to me(now I know its because he can't!!!!
). Now I know why he crys so much, I would cry too I had no way of verbally communicating to anybody. I'm sorry, I just had to let this all out, I'm in tears now just writing it, I feel like a horrible mother. I'm sure things will work out and he'll be fine a few years from now, its just all so overwhelming at this point.
Thanks for listening. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers, his tube surgery will be this time next month.
~Lindsey
A pic of the kids (Hayden on left and Hannah on right):
I just need to let off some stress and frustration, I hope you all dont mind. My son, Hayden, is 21 months old. He was born with bilateral Adductus Metatarsus (his feet turned inward and toes curled under when walking) and so he was a little late walking. It was understandable since he has to wear corrective shoes and so when he wasn't saying a word by 12-13 months we just figured he was going to be a little late since he was wasnt even walking yet. Well by 18 months I expressed my concerns to our doctor and was told its normal for boys to be behind. Although I agreed I still contacted our local ECI/child find and they came right out to screen him for a developmental delay. He qualified for services and we have worked with them for about 3 months now. It was suggested to get a hearing test done since he was Not mimmicking any words and rarely babbled(plus I have a family history of hearing impairment). Since our insurance is not good it took about a month to finally get a referral to the audiologist and have an appointment set!
That appointment was today and it has been a difficult day for me. The first thing they did was a 'pressure' test to check for fluid. His left ear was a 'flat line' which means that he has very little hearing if any in that ear. His right ear did show a small 'peak' so we know that he has some hearing in it. What was so heartbreaking was the next part of the test. We were taken to a sound proof room and sat in a chair with a speaker on each side. The lady called his name over and over and made different noises in the left speaker....he just sat in my lap, picking at his blanket. then she did the same thing in the right speaker and he just sat there still as can be looking at the toy car we brought. No response.
Thanks for listening. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers, his tube surgery will be this time next month.
~Lindsey
A pic of the kids (Hayden on left and Hannah on right):