Has anyone on here done an international adoption or know of someone who has and how it went? My husband and I are interested in possibly doing one from China, but are considering other countries as well.
Amanda
Amanda
My neighbor and best friend is in the middle of her china adoption....she adopted from the US and is now doing china.......it is going on a year and she is awaiting travel approval.....slow right now as the country shuts down for chinese new year..........if you want info let me know I can get you plenty off listHas anyone on here done an international adoption or know of someone who has and how it went? My husband and I are interested in possibly doing one from China, but are considering other countries as well.
Amanda
OK to address the specifics....If you are looking for a girl without special needs ..ie hepatitis, cleft lip/'palate, older (2yrs plus) and other mental issues be prepared for a bit of a tumultus ride....it isn't fast or cheap or easy......it takes time lots of time...plan on a year minimum from being selected lots of paperwork and hoops and lots of money.........real dollars to give you an idea......my friend is single and adopting a 2 yr old boy with special needs (ie unwanted in chinese society) he has a discounted "price" take offense if you wish but it is the truth....when all is said and done she will be into this adoption 30,000 ....her US adoption in comparison older child 6 when she started 7.5 when done was less than 5000..............it is tough ...it takes alot of time...and you need to be prepared.......I can share the adoption agencies she has used as they are very good to work with....For me it's partly supply and demand and how long of a wait. Anymore too it seems just as expensive to try to adopt here in the US as it is out of the country. Most countries you do have to travel to and some you have to go twice, but China is one of the shorter stays for adopting plus I've always wanted a girl, and since I should not get pregnant and I can choose why not? Also, I am not sure about Canada or Mexico, but I know in South America you have to spend quite a bit of time down there for the adoption. The other problem I have with U.S. adoptions is the possibility of the birth parent getting their child back. I would have a very hard time taking in a child and then losing it. That's why I don't think I could ever do foster parenting even though I'm glad many people can.
Amanda
MY daughter adopted two boys 9 months apart, unrelated from here in U.S.. Both infants, both have had problems but we love them dearly. Was very expensive and a very long wait..Part of the reason people adopt from other countries is time, you can wait for YEARS on a list to adopt an infant or young child from the US. And that's if you meet the age requirements, they go by the fathers age on if you are eligable to adopt an infant or not. It's a lot more expensive most of the time to adopt over seas as sometimes you must actually fly over and stay in the country for a week or 2 before bringing the child back.
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