willowoodstables
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I have a good friend getting married this year. Sounds wonderful, right? Not!!
First. They are copy-ing my wedding to a "t". Would be fine, but don't you hav any original ideas yourself. Example, they are getting a piper. I had one as my hubby is Scots. Neither party has any Scots. Example, using our wedding song (geesh). Example, invitation says BYOB and Tent(getting the picture???) Example, they are honeymooning in the same cottage we did.
Second and most hurtful.
My hubby and I own an Antique cruiser with 2 other folks. The one owner has offered the boat to be the transportation of the wedding party. BUT this (our) boat was unavavilable for our wedding!! And we were not asked or even approached about this. Now I am tweaked because my husband didn't push for our wedding to have OUR boat, and he also feels that the wedding fiasco is getting more and more silly. As friends I cannot say anything to them, as I truly believe they don't have a clue. I DO have a problem with the other owner offering the boat, and I will be speaking to him this evening. Any suggestions on how to be tactful. My hubby is more upset than he lets on and I feel for him. We have spent mucho $$ and time on this boat and take enormous pride in it!
Kim
First. They are copy-ing my wedding to a "t". Would be fine, but don't you hav any original ideas yourself. Example, they are getting a piper. I had one as my hubby is Scots. Neither party has any Scots. Example, using our wedding song (geesh). Example, invitation says BYOB and Tent(getting the picture???) Example, they are honeymooning in the same cottage we did.
Second and most hurtful.
My hubby and I own an Antique cruiser with 2 other folks. The one owner has offered the boat to be the transportation of the wedding party. BUT this (our) boat was unavavilable for our wedding!! And we were not asked or even approached about this. Now I am tweaked because my husband didn't push for our wedding to have OUR boat, and he also feels that the wedding fiasco is getting more and more silly. As friends I cannot say anything to them, as I truly believe they don't have a clue. I DO have a problem with the other owner offering the boat, and I will be speaking to him this evening. Any suggestions on how to be tactful. My hubby is more upset than he lets on and I feel for him. We have spent mucho $$ and time on this boat and take enormous pride in it!
Kim