Gosh Susanne I can't tell you how upset I was and no way to reach you or even send you a lousy flower.
I'm just so glad you are back home now.
Here goes the lecture:
Susanne, if you are abusing yourself, over doing, whatever, please, just stop and take a lot around you; at Keith, your friends far and near, your life. Please be more careful and dilligent and take care of YOU. You are so special.
It's no good when you are the one that has been left behind to pick up the pieces.