On Dec. 20th my 53 year old father passed away. We believe he was going to the store for the paper and a coffee and had a massive heart attack while driving to the store and hit a unoccupied house. They found him on his stomach 20 feet from his truck. One of their neighbors who is a first responder and firefighter was driving by and saw him. He did cpr and everything else he could to bring him back but later told me at the wake when I asked that he had probably been there for a while. I miss him so much yet I haven't really cried or felt overwhelming sadness. I'm able to go about my life like nothing has happened this really bothers me as I feel I should be more upset then I feel. He had a history of heart attacks and had a quadruple bypass at 42 his first major heart attack was at 32. He'd had a stress test just a couple months before and passed it fine. I've always told myself that we could lose him to his heart problems at anytime so maybe I've just prepared myself for it. I don't know I just feel so guilty that I'm able to carry on with life pretty much like normal and that I haven't broken down and cried. What kind of person doesn't cry when they lose their father? We had been closer then ever before in the last two years even though I moved an hour away. I used to live 5 minutes from them. All I feel is sadness for my mom. Her and Dad had been together since they were 14 years old. Has anyone else been through this and why am I not more upset?