I hope you have read all the posts so far..........each are slightly different, but each are so right..........just like grief is.
Grief for our immediate family (and I've lost both my parents, mother-inlaw, and my older brother) will hit us differently each time. THERE ARE NO RULES TO OUR EMOTIONS WITH LOSS.
You are okay.........You may not cry. Or you may someday find yourself sobbing. Or, over time there may be something that brings on a tear or two......none of that is wrong.....it just is.....
I also suspect that you are in shock. You are numb. And in time I hope that when the tears do come it will be brought on by memories that will be mixed with both those tears and a smile.
Don't be afraid to share either on here or with a PM to any one of us you feel comfortable with. As you can tell, there are a number of us who have had a similar loss.
Remember, though......your dad was loved when he crossed over, and he knew it and STILL knows it. I hope that brings you and your mom some comfort.
Blessings,
MA
sorry...typo.
Grief for our immediate family (and I've lost both my parents, mother-inlaw, and my older brother) will hit us differently each time. THERE ARE NO RULES TO OUR EMOTIONS WITH LOSS.
You are okay.........You may not cry. Or you may someday find yourself sobbing. Or, over time there may be something that brings on a tear or two......none of that is wrong.....it just is.....
I also suspect that you are in shock. You are numb. And in time I hope that when the tears do come it will be brought on by memories that will be mixed with both those tears and a smile.
Don't be afraid to share either on here or with a PM to any one of us you feel comfortable with. As you can tell, there are a number of us who have had a similar loss.
Remember, though......your dad was loved when he crossed over, and he knew it and STILL knows it. I hope that brings you and your mom some comfort.
Blessings,
MA
sorry...typo.
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