Okay this happened yesterday and we are LIVID! MJ is in middle school and this kind of crap will not be tolerated! Don't go messing with my babies!!
The only thing they did was told Aaron to apologize - big freakin whoop! If MJ would have been a girl I am sure heads would have been rolling! This is not boys will be boys - this kid has tormented MJ since Kindy. Marshall has 6 inches and 20 pounds over him (except MJ is the nicest kid ever) and I am about to tell him to knock the snot out of him and we'll deal with it our way...
What should we do??
.... Schools are too easy on kids for fear of getting into trouble. I understand why, and while it ticks me off that they don't do more... they can't, really, without fear of loosing their jobs, lawsuits, etc. It's all stupid.
That said, my brother and I both suffered more then our fair shares of torment in school. I was (un?)lucky enough that most of my abuses were verbal- my brother ended up getting ketchup dumped on him, tainted lotion, etc etc.
My mother never heard much about what was going on with me after 6th grade- my choice- but she sure as heck went 'round and round with the school. It is not "Kids will be kids"- kids can and will be vicious, ON PURPOSE.
I'd start looking at contacting local media, or such. Finding out if these things are happening to other kids and being left unpunished, and possibly even contacting a lawyer to see what can be done, if anything, to get the school to step up.
Seriously, it's the parent's responsibility to raise their kid not to do these things, and many don't. They leave it to the school. And, sadly, even when the parents DO do their job, it doesn't mean the kid is gonna behave at school- so the schools need to do more then slap wrists.
... sorry for the rant.