I've become "Churchless" for the first time in my life since June 10th. I'm not used to this.
My questions for you and topic for discussion is:
Should Church be a happy place where you can smile and feel good?
When the kids were little and we were looking for a Church here, the first one we tried scared us to death.
The preacher was preaching in the "fire and brimstone" style, and had us shaking. Dan was so little, he just sat there with his eyes HUGE bugging out and Michael was holding him close. He was so scared. Michael leaned over to me and whispered to me if he could pretend he was sick so we could leave. I said YES, let's gooooooooo. We left in the middle of the sermon.
Jerry's Pastor came to me and wanted to know why I wasn't attending Church with Jerry. I told him I still have "issues" with God and I am not ready, may not ever be again to return to Church. This Pastor uses the old "fire and brimstone" tactics and the way he preaches, upsets me. He yells, yells a lot from up there. I know that is the "style" but I did not like it before and I don't like it now. To me, he's "threatening" heck way too much, in every other sentence, every week. "If you want to get to heaven do this do that etc. " And if you don't, you will go straight to burn in heck"........that type of thing. Always yelling. So loud. Very loud and pointing his finger and banging his fist down. When I look around, no one is smiling. No one is looking happy. But everyone is listening. I told the Preacher in the nicest way I could that I do not want to go to Church to get yelled at like that or threatened. If you take a minute out to go to the Religious Channels on TV, if you keep flipping the channels, eventually, you will see what I am talking about. I know this is the style for that kind of Southern Baptist Church and that is the way he chooses to preach. "Passionate" would be putting it midly. Not all Southern Baptist Churchs do that however. Our Baptist Church in Florida did not yell at us either like this one here.
Being raised in a Catholic Church, there were hymns being sung by choir, things much softer and quiet. I don't remember the Pastor I had growing up being loud or scarring anyone when he preached.
On television I saw a commercial for a Church in Chattanooga. I don't even know the denomination but the people were sure happy. They were singing, clapping their hands, and there was a full band, a huge band with a drummer, guitars, horns, all kinds of instruments. The previews showed the pastor was not hollering in his sermon. He was speaking in a normal tone of voice, smiling, looking kindly at the people. I told Jerry When I get ready, "I'll go there".........when I'm ready.
Wondering what you think about it all.
Should Church be a "happy place" ???
My questions for you and topic for discussion is:
Should Church be a happy place where you can smile and feel good?
When the kids were little and we were looking for a Church here, the first one we tried scared us to death.
The preacher was preaching in the "fire and brimstone" style, and had us shaking. Dan was so little, he just sat there with his eyes HUGE bugging out and Michael was holding him close. He was so scared. Michael leaned over to me and whispered to me if he could pretend he was sick so we could leave. I said YES, let's gooooooooo. We left in the middle of the sermon.
Jerry's Pastor came to me and wanted to know why I wasn't attending Church with Jerry. I told him I still have "issues" with God and I am not ready, may not ever be again to return to Church. This Pastor uses the old "fire and brimstone" tactics and the way he preaches, upsets me. He yells, yells a lot from up there. I know that is the "style" but I did not like it before and I don't like it now. To me, he's "threatening" heck way too much, in every other sentence, every week. "If you want to get to heaven do this do that etc. " And if you don't, you will go straight to burn in heck"........that type of thing. Always yelling. So loud. Very loud and pointing his finger and banging his fist down. When I look around, no one is smiling. No one is looking happy. But everyone is listening. I told the Preacher in the nicest way I could that I do not want to go to Church to get yelled at like that or threatened. If you take a minute out to go to the Religious Channels on TV, if you keep flipping the channels, eventually, you will see what I am talking about. I know this is the style for that kind of Southern Baptist Church and that is the way he chooses to preach. "Passionate" would be putting it midly. Not all Southern Baptist Churchs do that however. Our Baptist Church in Florida did not yell at us either like this one here.
Being raised in a Catholic Church, there were hymns being sung by choir, things much softer and quiet. I don't remember the Pastor I had growing up being loud or scarring anyone when he preached.
On television I saw a commercial for a Church in Chattanooga. I don't even know the denomination but the people were sure happy. They were singing, clapping their hands, and there was a full band, a huge band with a drummer, guitars, horns, all kinds of instruments. The previews showed the pastor was not hollering in his sermon. He was speaking in a normal tone of voice, smiling, looking kindly at the people. I told Jerry When I get ready, "I'll go there".........when I'm ready.
Wondering what you think about it all.
Should Church be a "happy place" ???