Being that she is new to you ,for the next month id be trying to put as much desensitising into her as possible. It will help you when you are trying to get udder pics and feel for serious movement as she gets closer. Start by rubbing her hooves and work up her legs, along her back and then slowly work down the sides, towards the bottom of her belly. You can even try using plastic or a paper bag.
As she's a maiden she's getting to that point where she's realising somethings happening inside her and she's not quite sure what yet, so when she does feel a good kick or significant movement, she she will jump a little or it will look like somethings startled her.
Hopefully its not too long before it starts to warm up for you so you can see whats hiding under all that hair.
