I had my wisdom teeth out last year (although at the same time I had part of my jaw removed to remove a tumor in my jaw bone) so my surgery was a bit more intense than yours would've been but I'll talk nonetheless. Basically it was the worst surgery of my life (I've had four) and I would rather jump off of a cliff than ever experience it again. I wasn't allowed (because of the jaw bit) near the horses until January of 2007 and I had my operation on October 11th of 2006. I wasn't better until January and had every single possible complication. Basically, to say it nicely and quick, it was heck. So here is my advice...ice, ice and more ice! Then in a few days start alternating between ice and heat. Watch out for dry socket, and I don't know what it's like where you are, but here once dry socket is found they apply clove oil dressings that make the pain/infection stop almost instantaneously. Make sure you stay on top of your pain medication (not sure what you're on...I was on morphine based drugs you may just have Tylenol 3's). Don't let it go more than four hours (even through the night) for your pain for at least three days...depending on your pain levels you can start lowering the dosage and then spacing out the time you go between pills. Rest as much as possible and do NOT drink anything through a straw that promotes dry socket. No sucking on foods either!! Don't smoke, if you (easier said than done I would guess) do that also promotes dry socket. Your swelling will peak about two or three days after your surgery and then it should start to slowly go away.
I had a friend who had his out and the next day he was eating pork chops!!! So have no fear, most people are over and done with it within a week. Although you must try your hardest not to get dry socket it is not something you want to experience. Well I had one of the worst cases of dry socket he had seen in awhile (wasn't my fault lol) but I would think that even mild dry socket is ridiculously painful. Anywho good luck and feel better! You'll be out and about in no time!