Robin1
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December 12, 2005 3:03 AM
Subject: COURTEOUS ASSERTIVENESS
I wish I'd written this article. It is not just another list of gripes but
rather some very important thinking points on whether or not you want to
preserve ALL freedom of ALL religions. It's about making a personal choice
to be part of the solution rather than being a victim and therefore part of
the problem. I hope you get as much out of it as I did.
By Debbie Daniel
I'm on a "Merry Christmas" mission and I'm in full throttle. My little
yellow VW Beetle has turned into a Christmas billboard with Merry Christmas
written across the back window. Yes, I've decided to trek off to work
everyday on the public highways with a message that seems to offend people.
At stop lights, I even turn my music up a little louder, and to top it
off, I sing along with it. Don't I know that stopping at a red light to roll
my windows down only to share the joy of Christmas carols on public streets
is a No-No? Don't I fear the Christmas Gestapo and those who would have me
remove the written message from my car?
I'm sorry folks, but the only person I'm concerned about "offending"
during this Christmas season is the Lord himself. LEAVE THAT MANGER ALONE!
We've allowed the Baby Jesus to be kicked out of His lowly manger, and those
offended by Christmas are still not happy.
I refuse to let this happen. I'm going to do my part to make sure "Merry
Christmas" doesn't become extinct. Because like it or not, if the believers
in Christmas don't take a stand now, it's gone forever.
Listen folks, the Christian community has been underestimated before; we
will have to show ourselves again.
I walked into a Wendy's Restaurant the other day and was rather
exuberant with my "Merry Christmas" greeting to the manager. He didn't have
much of a response and I said, "Where's your Christmas spirit?" He said,
"We're not allowed to use the words "Merry Christmas" when greeting
customers. We can only say "Happy Holiday."
This morning I grabbed a quick breakfast at a Whataburger Restaurant. I
noticed there wasn't a single decoration in the store. I asked the manager
why they weren't decorated for Christmas. He told me the corporate
headquarters decided not to send any decorations to any of their stores, and
he didn't know why.
After I heard about all the Macy's and Federated Stores taking down
their Merry Christmas signs, the Target stores not allowing the Salvation
Army to "Ring the Christmas bells," and the many incidents of children,
choirs, and bands not allowed to play or sing Christmas carols, I realized
it was happening right here in my own little Texas town. How can this be?
Not Texas!
We do, however, have a store, Hobby Lobby, that plays nothing but
Christmas carols during the season. On Christmas Day they run a full page ad
in our local newspaper. That ad is not to promote the store, but uses the
entire page to tell the story of Jesus' birth. Now that's taking a stand. We
need to thank them.
When I saw a news report the other evening of children being taught new
words to a song we've sung for years - "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" - I
was saddened to hear "We Wish You a Splendid Holiday."
I know now that it's just a matter of time that the "Merry Christmas"
greetings will be gone. Look around your town. Notice the "Holiday"
greetings and not "Christmas." It's happening right before our very eyes.
Start singing the songs; go down the streets of America singing to your
heart's content. Get some of those wash-off markers that these kids use to
write on their car windows when they're rooting for their hometown football
team. It's easy to do, and if a torrential rain washes it off, write it on
there again.
We've got to get this message out. "Go Tell It On the Mountain . . .
that Jesus Christ is Born." Sing it, speak it, be a billboard for our Lord.
The story of this "Baby Jesus" alone has brought about more goodwill at
this time of year than any other day we celebrate. How can we sit back and
allow Him to be snuffed out of our lives?
Is it Jesus, or is it His followers that the "offended" don't like? What
kind of revulsion galvanizes one to campaign so vehemently against the mere
mention of His name, the mere singing of a carol, or the mere visual of a
sign that says "Merry Christmas?"
I can listen to my own boss at work use some of the vilest words and
follow up with, "Excuse my French." I may cringe inside at his darning of
God's name, but I tolerate it. So if you don't like me wishing you a "Merry
Christmas," I'll say, "Excuse my joy." You may cringe that I celebrate the
birth of Jesus, but just tolerate it.
I cannot be concerned that "Merry Christmas" offends you. If I'm not
careful, the day will come when saying I'm a Christian will offend you.
I'm offended that you're offended. How about that?
When we get to a point that we can no longer take part in a tradition we
hold dear, we have no choice; we either defend that tradition or we give it
up to those who say NO. That's it . . . period. So, which will it be? I'm
not giving up my "Merry Christmas" joy to anyone.
If I know of someone who celebrates another holiday during this time of
year, I will be glad to wish them whatever holiday they want. Just tell me
what it is and I'll shout it to the world and wish you a grand celebration.
Just give me Christmas. To you merchants: Stop being so hypocritical and
"filling your tills" on the back of Jesus! Who do you think is the symbol of
giving at this time of year? It was the wise men bringing gifts to the
newborn Christ-child.
You want your coffers full, but have ordered your employees to take down
all the Merry Christmas signs. If that's the case, I'll buy gifts at a place
that understands my joy.
If you're worried about offending someone, you just did. The most recent
Newsweek survey shows that 82% of Americans believe that Jesus is the Son of
God. So, in trying not to offend a few, you've offended many.
It's okay to jump into the "Merry Christmas" spirit when it fills your
cash register, but let's call it something else . . . and don't stop giving
. . . and don't stop buying. .. . we'll just change the name and you'll
never know the difference.
I know the difference and I'm feeling it greatly. It's hard not to be
aware that townships across our country have actually banned the singing of
Christmas carols because it might offend someone. And it's not just the
religious songs; it's the secular ones too. No more "Jingle Bells" or
"Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" because they're associated with Christmas.
Boy, aren't we getting sensitive?
If we're not celebrating Christmas for the hope it gives with the birth
of our Savior . . . there is no hope!
I noticed a few years ago that we changed the name of Abraham Lincoln's
and George Washington's birthday so as to be all inclusive regarding the
Presidents. Hark, if we should recognize anyone as exceptional. Now it's
called Presidents' Day.
Well, if we're going to be so all inclusive, next month I'll have to
refer to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day as Civil Rights Leaders' Day. We
don't want to exclude great Americans like Rosa Parks or Cesar Chavez, do
we? And to think that Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton might be left out.
We might need to change Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Grandparents'
Day to All Parents' Day. Just lump them all together.
It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? So what's the difference?
My freedom to celebrate Christmas in the tradition of the Christian
religion is as much my right as it is your right to be offended by it. So
what are we going to do? Did anyone hear me . . . what are we going to do?
Do we defend a person's right to go forward with a time tested tradition
(how about 2000 years?), or do we defend a person's right to end it all
because they're offended? As long as we live in this great land and have the
freedom to express ourselves and what we believe in, we will always offend
someone.
If we try to make everything right for everyone, we won't have anything
for anyone.
May you always have Christmas in your heart!
Robin
Subject: COURTEOUS ASSERTIVENESS
I wish I'd written this article. It is not just another list of gripes but
rather some very important thinking points on whether or not you want to
preserve ALL freedom of ALL religions. It's about making a personal choice
to be part of the solution rather than being a victim and therefore part of
the problem. I hope you get as much out of it as I did.
By Debbie Daniel
I'm on a "Merry Christmas" mission and I'm in full throttle. My little
yellow VW Beetle has turned into a Christmas billboard with Merry Christmas
written across the back window. Yes, I've decided to trek off to work
everyday on the public highways with a message that seems to offend people.
At stop lights, I even turn my music up a little louder, and to top it
off, I sing along with it. Don't I know that stopping at a red light to roll
my windows down only to share the joy of Christmas carols on public streets
is a No-No? Don't I fear the Christmas Gestapo and those who would have me
remove the written message from my car?
I'm sorry folks, but the only person I'm concerned about "offending"
during this Christmas season is the Lord himself. LEAVE THAT MANGER ALONE!
We've allowed the Baby Jesus to be kicked out of His lowly manger, and those
offended by Christmas are still not happy.
I refuse to let this happen. I'm going to do my part to make sure "Merry
Christmas" doesn't become extinct. Because like it or not, if the believers
in Christmas don't take a stand now, it's gone forever.
Listen folks, the Christian community has been underestimated before; we
will have to show ourselves again.
I walked into a Wendy's Restaurant the other day and was rather
exuberant with my "Merry Christmas" greeting to the manager. He didn't have
much of a response and I said, "Where's your Christmas spirit?" He said,
"We're not allowed to use the words "Merry Christmas" when greeting
customers. We can only say "Happy Holiday."
This morning I grabbed a quick breakfast at a Whataburger Restaurant. I
noticed there wasn't a single decoration in the store. I asked the manager
why they weren't decorated for Christmas. He told me the corporate
headquarters decided not to send any decorations to any of their stores, and
he didn't know why.
After I heard about all the Macy's and Federated Stores taking down
their Merry Christmas signs, the Target stores not allowing the Salvation
Army to "Ring the Christmas bells," and the many incidents of children,
choirs, and bands not allowed to play or sing Christmas carols, I realized
it was happening right here in my own little Texas town. How can this be?
Not Texas!
We do, however, have a store, Hobby Lobby, that plays nothing but
Christmas carols during the season. On Christmas Day they run a full page ad
in our local newspaper. That ad is not to promote the store, but uses the
entire page to tell the story of Jesus' birth. Now that's taking a stand. We
need to thank them.
When I saw a news report the other evening of children being taught new
words to a song we've sung for years - "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" - I
was saddened to hear "We Wish You a Splendid Holiday."
I know now that it's just a matter of time that the "Merry Christmas"
greetings will be gone. Look around your town. Notice the "Holiday"
greetings and not "Christmas." It's happening right before our very eyes.
Start singing the songs; go down the streets of America singing to your
heart's content. Get some of those wash-off markers that these kids use to
write on their car windows when they're rooting for their hometown football
team. It's easy to do, and if a torrential rain washes it off, write it on
there again.
We've got to get this message out. "Go Tell It On the Mountain . . .
that Jesus Christ is Born." Sing it, speak it, be a billboard for our Lord.
The story of this "Baby Jesus" alone has brought about more goodwill at
this time of year than any other day we celebrate. How can we sit back and
allow Him to be snuffed out of our lives?
Is it Jesus, or is it His followers that the "offended" don't like? What
kind of revulsion galvanizes one to campaign so vehemently against the mere
mention of His name, the mere singing of a carol, or the mere visual of a
sign that says "Merry Christmas?"
I can listen to my own boss at work use some of the vilest words and
follow up with, "Excuse my French." I may cringe inside at his darning of
God's name, but I tolerate it. So if you don't like me wishing you a "Merry
Christmas," I'll say, "Excuse my joy." You may cringe that I celebrate the
birth of Jesus, but just tolerate it.
I cannot be concerned that "Merry Christmas" offends you. If I'm not
careful, the day will come when saying I'm a Christian will offend you.
I'm offended that you're offended. How about that?
When we get to a point that we can no longer take part in a tradition we
hold dear, we have no choice; we either defend that tradition or we give it
up to those who say NO. That's it . . . period. So, which will it be? I'm
not giving up my "Merry Christmas" joy to anyone.
If I know of someone who celebrates another holiday during this time of
year, I will be glad to wish them whatever holiday they want. Just tell me
what it is and I'll shout it to the world and wish you a grand celebration.
Just give me Christmas. To you merchants: Stop being so hypocritical and
"filling your tills" on the back of Jesus! Who do you think is the symbol of
giving at this time of year? It was the wise men bringing gifts to the
newborn Christ-child.
You want your coffers full, but have ordered your employees to take down
all the Merry Christmas signs. If that's the case, I'll buy gifts at a place
that understands my joy.
If you're worried about offending someone, you just did. The most recent
Newsweek survey shows that 82% of Americans believe that Jesus is the Son of
God. So, in trying not to offend a few, you've offended many.
It's okay to jump into the "Merry Christmas" spirit when it fills your
cash register, but let's call it something else . . . and don't stop giving
. . . and don't stop buying. .. . we'll just change the name and you'll
never know the difference.
I know the difference and I'm feeling it greatly. It's hard not to be
aware that townships across our country have actually banned the singing of
Christmas carols because it might offend someone. And it's not just the
religious songs; it's the secular ones too. No more "Jingle Bells" or
"Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" because they're associated with Christmas.
Boy, aren't we getting sensitive?
If we're not celebrating Christmas for the hope it gives with the birth
of our Savior . . . there is no hope!
I noticed a few years ago that we changed the name of Abraham Lincoln's
and George Washington's birthday so as to be all inclusive regarding the
Presidents. Hark, if we should recognize anyone as exceptional. Now it's
called Presidents' Day.
Well, if we're going to be so all inclusive, next month I'll have to
refer to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day as Civil Rights Leaders' Day. We
don't want to exclude great Americans like Rosa Parks or Cesar Chavez, do
we? And to think that Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton might be left out.
We might need to change Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Grandparents'
Day to All Parents' Day. Just lump them all together.
It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? So what's the difference?
My freedom to celebrate Christmas in the tradition of the Christian
religion is as much my right as it is your right to be offended by it. So
what are we going to do? Did anyone hear me . . . what are we going to do?
Do we defend a person's right to go forward with a time tested tradition
(how about 2000 years?), or do we defend a person's right to end it all
because they're offended? As long as we live in this great land and have the
freedom to express ourselves and what we believe in, we will always offend
someone.
If we try to make everything right for everyone, we won't have anything
for anyone.
May you always have Christmas in your heart!
Robin
