I would say that you don't really know the horse well enough yet to be making any real decisions about her. You haven't seen her true day to day personality. She is not much more than a baby and has been taken away from her herd and introduced into a new situation. She is, after only a week, settling in fairly well on the equine side of things judging from the photo that shows her equadistant between her 2 pasture mates (Lacey is lookin' great by the way
) She hasn't become buddies with either from the look of it yet but hasn't made enemies either. Once she is more comfortable in her position with you, you will start to see her true nature. She may not be very confidant (but then what baby really is?) but she is intelligent enough to keep herself safe by not just complacently accepting her new situation.
I disagree that a horse's natural instinct is to stop when faced with the unknown. MOST horse's natural instincts tell them to immediately flee from anything scary or even suspicious. Some horse's that are domesticated will stop rather than bolt from danger (not a good trait in a wild horse that could end up dead as a result) and that is a good trait as far as we are concerned.
I think this horse needs to learn to lead properly and give to pressure and that will help with the gate issues along with her gaining confidance in you. You would not believe the number of fully grown horses that have never been truly taught to lead.
I think you need to let this horse get to know and trust you before you start to make complete assessments on her personality. It sounds to me like she could be quite intelligent and may well make a great driving horse.
Actually the pinto (Cosmo) came with the little black one from the same place, but my neighbour liked the black one more than I did, so that one's now gone next door.
Thank you, Lori, Lacey is looking like a mini Haflinger and is doing great
She's bossing Cosmo, but not being too mean.
One thing I am thinking that Cosmo has learned to lead by following the person's body motion, not from the feel of the rope. Therefore the feel on the halter doesn't mean anything to her. She also doesn't follow hand signals like the rest of my horses do, no surprise, but usually most new horses will move without too much encouragement.
There are lots of ways to get her moving, but I want to figure out how to go about it before I start making mistakes with a filly so gentle.
Like if she was left-brain like Lacey is, I could see it as resistance from "I-don't-wanna" and could be more firm with her. If she was right-brain like my AQHA mare used to be, I would want to give her lots of reassurance and confidence.
I'm trying to assess whether I want to keep Cosmo before I start training her my way - right now she's very gentle in her manner and stands very still around people. So she would be great for someone who wanted her for a family pet (with supervision of course).
I've had better luck leading her when I give her time to stop and look around. I'm just trying to decide whether she's fearful or stubborn, but oddly enough I can't say she is either. I'm thinking she needs time to experience new things. I've tried to follow a similar routine with variations each day, to see what happens. When I give her the time, she wants to look at everything. She's also not motivated much by food.
Today I put the 2 big horses into the mini paddocks and I let Lacey and Cosmo out in the big field. Lacey of course got busy eating (no. 1 motivation). Cosmo started to run around in big circles as fast as she could go, switching leads and kicking in the air. So she certainly is able to move out when she wants. She was also running on uneven ground, so can't be blind.
I guess I was asking these questions about balky horses because she has a personality that I find puzzling.
I've rescued quite a few horses - last month I got a yearling arab with a history of abuse - he is now gelded, and has my older arab gelding "mentoring" him. He learns well, is left brained and showing good progress. Trains easy in spite of having experienced everything a horse shouldn't. I was careful as he was aggressive (he had never been with another horse, so was trying to play with people) - my best fix for that was to send my retired gelding down there to teach him some manners - that only took about 5 minutes.
Then about 3 weeks ago I got another young stallion (reining bloodlines) - 2.5 years, again with almost no training, and feet not trimmed. He's also gelded now. I've been making some progress with some liberty techniques. He knew all about haltering - what he knew to do was yank the rope and run away. He is also aggressive in the field - that is, I was reading it as aggression, until a couple of days ago I came to an understanding of his behaviour - he's spent all his life in a pasture, where the neighbours would come and give him treats and pat his face - his owner was too busy to do much with him. So almost all his handling has been from the other side of the fence. I suddenly realized that his "aggression" in the field is just unconfidence - he doesn't have much experience with a person actually approaching him from the side. So although I had to protect myself a few times and whapped him to stop him from running over me, I feel I made mistakes with him.
Instead of seeing the pinned ears etc. as offense, I think it's defense. I now have to find more friendly ways to get him used to me standing beside him. That can be as simple as standing there until he relaxes and turns to look at me.
So having made that mistake with him, I'm looking at Cosmo and trying to figure her out before I go about changing her
I do find that horses tend to show their basic traits when they're young and in the past I wasted years trying to change some of them. However, I never had one this balky before.
With Lacey, I loved everything about her and still do - she liked me right off the bat, and still does
Her tendency is to slow down when she's scared, and move out when she's feeling good. I like her conformation and her colouring. I also love that she's left-brain most of the time.
One other thing about Cosmo - regarding her vision. She does have one blue eye. The vet who came to geld the two horses said that he had talked to students who did a study on horses with blue eyes - apparently their finding was that horses with blue eyes were somewhat more flighty and they thought the blue eye actually doesn't have as good vision.
I think what I'm going to do next is line drive Lacey and take Cosmo along to see what she does. I'll be prepared that she might only walk behind, but after a while, maybe I'll be able to send her up next to Lacey.