In 2006 I graduated from post secondary school (highschool) and a couple months after that I had a surgery which took me three months to recover from, a few other health things happened and then another surgery in the summer of 2007. I was planning on going to post secondary school (i.e. college or university) in January of 2007, as I would be in England for the fall semester, which began in September 2007.
Time rolled around and I had no clue which courses to take and so have still not gone to school. That was fine but now it's 2008, my friends are nearly done their degrees and I have done nothing. I am starting to feel like a total failure/loser in life.
My problem is I can't make a choice. I HATE (with a passion) repetition and so I don’t want to be in any career that involves repetition. It drives me mental even just thinking about it, as my current job (at the airport in currency exchange) is repetitive. I know only I can choose what to do with my life but I just feel so helpless. I know I need to go to school and get a degree for ME otherwise I will not be happy, nor will I be able to live the life I want to live. Money is not something that matters to me, but I do not want to be living pay cheque to pay cheque. I want to be able to be independent (i.e. my own money and not relying on a husband), have my own house, have my pets, and be able to go on holidays without worrying about money. That said I don't want to be rich, it's just not something I want.
I just keep flip flopping between ideas every five minutes it seems. One minute I wanted to be into business but then I decided I'd rather be a nurse, then I thought well heck I should try for a doctor; then I decided that would be too much for me (emotionally and physically...I don’t want to be working stupid hours for the rest of my life, I want to be able to LIVE). Then I thought that maybe I could do something in the trades but that idea just scares me. Then what I thought that I really would've liked to do is to do kinesiology and/or dietetics and then open up a sort of health/wellness place. Basically a place where people could come have their diet taken care of by a dietician, and also a place where people could do some sort of exercise program. The dietician and kinesiology programs are both very science related and to be honest I am not sciencey at all. Math and science are subjects that are very hard for me, math especially. None of it makes sense to me and I just find it very hard. English, law and psychology on the other hand I had about 98% in all those classes.
I want a job that I'm not a slave to. I hate the city life and city people (no offense to anybody), I don't want to be only living my career. I want to be happy when I go to work and I want to be able to leave my work at work. I want to be able to work sensible hours (i.e. not 60-70hour weeks) so that I can spend time doing whatever I want.
I think that subconsciously I'm terrified of the idea of failure. I know that whatever I choose I will need to be doing some maths and that just scares me to the point of tears and I'm not even in the programs yet! For my mind I suppose it's easier to put it off rather than go there and fail, but for me I would rather try and fail than not try at all.
I just, I just don't know what to do and I feel like I'm running out of time. I feel like I'm wasting my life and it's starting to bring me down.
Time rolled around and I had no clue which courses to take and so have still not gone to school. That was fine but now it's 2008, my friends are nearly done their degrees and I have done nothing. I am starting to feel like a total failure/loser in life.
My problem is I can't make a choice. I HATE (with a passion) repetition and so I don’t want to be in any career that involves repetition. It drives me mental even just thinking about it, as my current job (at the airport in currency exchange) is repetitive. I know only I can choose what to do with my life but I just feel so helpless. I know I need to go to school and get a degree for ME otherwise I will not be happy, nor will I be able to live the life I want to live. Money is not something that matters to me, but I do not want to be living pay cheque to pay cheque. I want to be able to be independent (i.e. my own money and not relying on a husband), have my own house, have my pets, and be able to go on holidays without worrying about money. That said I don't want to be rich, it's just not something I want.
I just keep flip flopping between ideas every five minutes it seems. One minute I wanted to be into business but then I decided I'd rather be a nurse, then I thought well heck I should try for a doctor; then I decided that would be too much for me (emotionally and physically...I don’t want to be working stupid hours for the rest of my life, I want to be able to LIVE). Then I thought that maybe I could do something in the trades but that idea just scares me. Then what I thought that I really would've liked to do is to do kinesiology and/or dietetics and then open up a sort of health/wellness place. Basically a place where people could come have their diet taken care of by a dietician, and also a place where people could do some sort of exercise program. The dietician and kinesiology programs are both very science related and to be honest I am not sciencey at all. Math and science are subjects that are very hard for me, math especially. None of it makes sense to me and I just find it very hard. English, law and psychology on the other hand I had about 98% in all those classes.
I want a job that I'm not a slave to. I hate the city life and city people (no offense to anybody), I don't want to be only living my career. I want to be happy when I go to work and I want to be able to leave my work at work. I want to be able to work sensible hours (i.e. not 60-70hour weeks) so that I can spend time doing whatever I want.
I think that subconsciously I'm terrified of the idea of failure. I know that whatever I choose I will need to be doing some maths and that just scares me to the point of tears and I'm not even in the programs yet! For my mind I suppose it's easier to put it off rather than go there and fail, but for me I would rather try and fail than not try at all.
I just, I just don't know what to do and I feel like I'm running out of time. I feel like I'm wasting my life and it's starting to bring me down.