Charlene
Well-Known Member
hope you don't mind a little rant...
i ran into a woman yesterday who works at the courthouse where i used to work. she asked me how i was doing since gary's death. i told her i was okay, adjusting, not melting down as much as i used to, getting used to life without gary.
she said she heard gary died at home. i said yes. her next comment was "oh wow! it must be creepy going back into your house!"
i just looked at her. i've known this woman for 20+ years, i should have expected what came next. she's not the sort of person i can give the benefit of the doubt to. you know, chalk it up to not knowing what else to say, that sort of thing. she's hateful, spiteful, mean as a junk yard dog and the worst gossip i have ever come across in my 57 years.
she asked me if i was having any fun.
i said "huh??" she said, "you know, FUN!" *wink wink wink*
i said no bev, i don't find myself having much fun these days, i'm very busy. her next comment was "charlene, you're much too young to live alone. you need to find another man to have some fun with."
my response, before i walked out the door was "bev, you're much too stupid to live, alone or not. you need to talk a long walk off a short pier."
what on earth possesses people to say such stupid things???
thanks, i needed to vent. **rolls eyes**
i ran into a woman yesterday who works at the courthouse where i used to work. she asked me how i was doing since gary's death. i told her i was okay, adjusting, not melting down as much as i used to, getting used to life without gary.
she said she heard gary died at home. i said yes. her next comment was "oh wow! it must be creepy going back into your house!"
i just looked at her. i've known this woman for 20+ years, i should have expected what came next. she's not the sort of person i can give the benefit of the doubt to. you know, chalk it up to not knowing what else to say, that sort of thing. she's hateful, spiteful, mean as a junk yard dog and the worst gossip i have ever come across in my 57 years.
she asked me if i was having any fun.
i said no bev, i don't find myself having much fun these days, i'm very busy. her next comment was "charlene, you're much too young to live alone. you need to find another man to have some fun with."
my response, before i walked out the door was "bev, you're much too stupid to live, alone or not. you need to talk a long walk off a short pier."
what on earth possesses people to say such stupid things???
thanks, i needed to vent. **rolls eyes**