nnadams
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To buy the horse and take it to your place is a nice idea because it would keep the mother from selling the horse to someone else. But like others said, it would destroy what may be the only good thing this young girl has at home and what she has worked so hard to create. I think you should try to hire her to help out around your place. Say that you saw how well she takes care of her horse and you could use that kind of help at your place. You would have to be able to pay her. I am sure she has to earn her own money to pay for gas, food, and all the expenses that go along with being in high school. With going to school, working at a restaurant, taking care of her own horse, & homework, I am sure she does not have any spare time. If this were a simple case of a girl not having anywhere to put a horse and could work for room and board for the horse, that would be great, but this girl probably has to support herself. If you could afford to pay her for her time, it would work out good for both of you. You would have the extra help with your horses that we all could use and you could befriend and earn this girl's trust. She needs an adult mother-figure to trust and somewhere to go to for help IF she needs it. If after you get to know each other and she trusts you, you could offer to board her horse for her if she continues to have a problem with her mother trying to sell it. It would be her choice and not another thing happening to her world that she has not control over. The most important thing is she would have an adult she trusts and somewhere safe to go if she needs it.