l don't have a hubby and hope not to anytime soon but the minis here are a joint venture. My mom does 90% of the everyday work l do 90% of all the training hoofs and shots etc the other 10% we share. My dad is there 100% with any money we need or require other then that he's just in the background lets us do and buy what we want supporting in every way except having anyone gelded then he puts his foot down and we've learned to live with that. No one is perfect and that's his only fault with the horses that's a sore spot with us. Other then that it all works for each of us.