stormo41
Well-Known Member
Hey everyone. I would like your input on this topic.
my friend told me last night that her and her b/f are going to adopt a cat together. My friend and her b/f do not live together so this struck me a little odd, and not to mention the fact that their relationship is really rocky alot of the time (but hey thats none of my bee's wax) anyway, the cat would live at his place (apartment) where another cat (roomates) already lives, and the cat will go with him up north when school is over. I reminded her about what happened when i lived with my ex and we got pets, when we broke up he took them and a month later they showed up on my door and i was not able to take care of them and it was a big mess. Now she is telling me it will be his cat and the next e-mail says it will be their cat...confusing already.
Anyway I told them that i think it would be a bad idea for them to adopt a cat together. and that since he is 5 digits in debt that maybe a cat should not be the first thing on his list of things to pay for. I also refered them to local rescues and petfinder.com because i know my friend and i know once she sets her mind to something she does it right or wrong lol.
so what do you think? is it a good idea or a bad idea? just thought it would be interesting to find out what other people besides myself think.
-Vanessa
my friend told me last night that her and her b/f are going to adopt a cat together. My friend and her b/f do not live together so this struck me a little odd, and not to mention the fact that their relationship is really rocky alot of the time (but hey thats none of my bee's wax) anyway, the cat would live at his place (apartment) where another cat (roomates) already lives, and the cat will go with him up north when school is over. I reminded her about what happened when i lived with my ex and we got pets, when we broke up he took them and a month later they showed up on my door and i was not able to take care of them and it was a big mess. Now she is telling me it will be his cat and the next e-mail says it will be their cat...confusing already.
Anyway I told them that i think it would be a bad idea for them to adopt a cat together. and that since he is 5 digits in debt that maybe a cat should not be the first thing on his list of things to pay for. I also refered them to local rescues and petfinder.com because i know my friend and i know once she sets her mind to something she does it right or wrong lol.
so what do you think? is it a good idea or a bad idea? just thought it would be interesting to find out what other people besides myself think.
-Vanessa