Your post just about knocked me off my chair!!!!
PLEASE RE-READ JENN'S POST ON PAGE ONE. AND THEN READ MARTY'S POST.
Those two posts add up to mine.........
Sit down and let HIM talk FIRST. LISTEN. Make sure he knows that YOU ARE SCARED TOO. But dumping eachother and the baby is NOT going to solve anything.
Your hubby is not thinking clearly right now or he'd realize that splitting up would open up a huge can of worms. Obviously he's not been communicating with you, but that can change between you any time -- and NOW would be a good time.
One thing I will add to what both Jenn and Marty said..........Make sure he knows you are keeping the baby and that you will NOT walk away from your marriage without some sort of counseling. Trust me, counseling (with the right counseler/therapist) does help.........Speaking from 30 years of marriage to a very interesting man who keeps me on my toes daily -- LOL!)
Hang in there, my dear...........One way or another you WILL get through this. And if you are focussed on the fact that your CHILD is now your PRIORITY, all will be okay.
MA
PLEASE RE-READ JENN'S POST ON PAGE ONE. AND THEN READ MARTY'S POST.
Those two posts add up to mine.........
Sit down and let HIM talk FIRST. LISTEN. Make sure he knows that YOU ARE SCARED TOO. But dumping eachother and the baby is NOT going to solve anything.
Your hubby is not thinking clearly right now or he'd realize that splitting up would open up a huge can of worms. Obviously he's not been communicating with you, but that can change between you any time -- and NOW would be a good time.
One thing I will add to what both Jenn and Marty said..........Make sure he knows you are keeping the baby and that you will NOT walk away from your marriage without some sort of counseling. Trust me, counseling (with the right counseler/therapist) does help.........Speaking from 30 years of marriage to a very interesting man who keeps me on my toes daily -- LOL!)
Hang in there, my dear...........One way or another you WILL get through this. And if you are focussed on the fact that your CHILD is now your PRIORITY, all will be okay.
MA