I was watching the World Show, last year as it happens, although I watched this year as well, and I saw a gentleman, whose name I never managed to ascertain, he was in quite a few classes.Anyway, I watched him as the manners of his horses caught my eye, and this is what
he did, and what I now emulate.
You will see a lot of people doing what I call (forgive me, mea culpa
) "The Chicken Dance" in front of their horse, trying to get and then keep their attention.
They also drop and throw grain around, and do all sorts of strange things to get the horses ears up, etc.
This gentleman stood still in front of his horse, watching the others, but keeping a good eye on his own horse, whether in the ring or on the rail.
The horse stood like a rock. He appeared to have an internal clock as, every so many minutes he would "release" the horse and
that is when he rewarded it with a small handful of something out of his pocket.
This is the easiest thing in the world to do, as well!!
Just do as the others have said to get the horses attention, and get it to stand (The "whoa" has to be the most important word in your vocabulary IMO) but, once they are standing, ask for a few seconds more, then reward. It does not IMO have to be food, but a small, immediate, titbit seems to be the easiest thing to do.
No amount of unacceptable pushing or bullying should be accepted.
The
only way the horse gets the titbit is to do as you want.
It is still hard work, but, watching this person in the ring, I have to say it is well worth it.
He enjoyed it, as he could relax and still have his horse work for him.
His horses enjoyed it as they knew what to do, and knew they would be rewarded for doing it.
He never took his eye off them, they always got their reward, but my gosh, it was a joy to watch his calm, gentle, approach, and the relaxed, alert look of his horses!
So, reward them for behaving, do not reward them to
get them to behave!