justaboutgeese
Well-Known Member
Over the last ten weeks of so there were many hours and many nights that were difficult for me to get through. Finding myself alone after so many years is going to be a difficult adjustment for me to make. I always thought of myself as a person who could tolerate pain, maybe its just physical pain thats easy to take. Demimore mailed me the forum page Marty started to get me awake. Demi has been my pillar of stone through all this mess providing strength where I had none and a cyber shoulder to lean on. Some day when I meet that woman I am going to thank her personally for all the support she provided.
I visited the forum yesterday several times and read the replys and each and every time had tears in my eyes and down my cheeks. All of you had such kind words, thoughts, prayers and even a few wishbones to help me through this ordeal. This has been an emotional roller coaster for me. Everything from depression to even at times rage over what my wife did to me and our children. My girls are suffering also since their mother has at least for now shut them (and our beloved grandchildren) from her life.
At this point I have not been served with any court documents of any kind and am not able to make contact through her family members. She left with a great deal of money (as I said earlier the checking account had $43.00 left in it) and valuables. My current understanding is that she is out of money. After the torture and anguish she caused by this move I have not a clue as what I should do next. My lawyer has provided guidance on how best to protect myself for the short term but life is longer than short term. weather she is just out of cash or has sold her jewelry and art work I have no idea. I seriously doubt the latter because she seems to have become very materialistic and would wear her diamonds to stand in a soup line so to speak.
Its not easy for me to let go of a relationship that lasted 42 years and my emotions have been pushed beyond endurance. Inside I know in her current state of mind (or rather what I assume her currant state of mind is) she is on an emotional high right now and very near the crest of it. This troubles me a great deal since I have always been there to catch her. This time she gets to hit the bottom alone.
Once again I want to thank each and every one of you for being there for me even after I just shut you all out for so long. Regards Geese
I visited the forum yesterday several times and read the replys and each and every time had tears in my eyes and down my cheeks. All of you had such kind words, thoughts, prayers and even a few wishbones to help me through this ordeal. This has been an emotional roller coaster for me. Everything from depression to even at times rage over what my wife did to me and our children. My girls are suffering also since their mother has at least for now shut them (and our beloved grandchildren) from her life.
At this point I have not been served with any court documents of any kind and am not able to make contact through her family members. She left with a great deal of money (as I said earlier the checking account had $43.00 left in it) and valuables. My current understanding is that she is out of money. After the torture and anguish she caused by this move I have not a clue as what I should do next. My lawyer has provided guidance on how best to protect myself for the short term but life is longer than short term. weather she is just out of cash or has sold her jewelry and art work I have no idea. I seriously doubt the latter because she seems to have become very materialistic and would wear her diamonds to stand in a soup line so to speak.
Its not easy for me to let go of a relationship that lasted 42 years and my emotions have been pushed beyond endurance. Inside I know in her current state of mind (or rather what I assume her currant state of mind is) she is on an emotional high right now and very near the crest of it. This troubles me a great deal since I have always been there to catch her. This time she gets to hit the bottom alone.
Once again I want to thank each and every one of you for being there for me even after I just shut you all out for so long. Regards Geese