I saw this thread just in time. Was afraid that I had packed all of my candles, but there was a never-before-lit, beautiful candle in my bedroom that had been given to me by one of my daughters-- perfect for Michael's candle. It is lit, tears have been shed, and prayers have been said for sweet Michael and Marty, Jerry, and Dan. My thoughts and prayers are with the Garrisons, sending love and hoping that they will have the strength to endure this tragedy...