RainSong
Well-Known Member
Most of you know things are pretty messed up on my end of things.
But I've got a plan, finally. I'm just... not sure if it's good. or right... or whatever.
I don't want Nathan raised by someone else, let me say that first. Daycare is fine two, maybe three days a week- but he's MY son, not theirs. He shouldn't be with them 8 hours a day for five days (or more!) a week.
Most of you also know, I don't have my diploma, or my driver's license. Well, I failed the Driver's test in January, but on the 22nd I try again, and I don't think I'll fail. My next step is to see about going to school for my GED. That has to wait till the school's daycare program has an opening for him, etc. So it may not be till fall or later. If it IS that long, I'll take online classes...
I'm also planning to do schooling to attempt to get a job with the state like my mother has. It's 2k a month, and the benefits are spectacular. I'm pondering doing schooling as well for Medical Transcription or Coding.
Even when I finish schooling for these I may not be able to get work right off- I don't expect it to take four years, and until Nathan is in school (Or jobs situations work out) I won't do full time. Part-time stuff can be hard to find. BUT I will HAVE the skills and the GED to be able to work once he IS in school.
I've been suffering pretty bad depression lately. The home situation, Dave being gone 3-4 weeks (this time 6!), not having enough money to even pay rent... it's all really getting to me. I know though, even if I do this- I'll waver. It'll be long, and it'll be hard, and the reward isn't anything tangible that I can really feel. But I'm still wondering if it's a good idea. If I should, really.
So there we go. I'm not trying to do anything big right now. Baby steps. I just want to maybe be able to have our own place- maybe even have a horse, or something, and not be stuck worrying all the time and all. I'm worn down and worn out, and plotting great things has become a habit of the past.
But it's a good plan, isn't it? I just need more then a couple people to talk to about it.
And wish me luck on my test on the 22nd, please!
But I've got a plan, finally. I'm just... not sure if it's good. or right... or whatever.
I don't want Nathan raised by someone else, let me say that first. Daycare is fine two, maybe three days a week- but he's MY son, not theirs. He shouldn't be with them 8 hours a day for five days (or more!) a week.
Most of you also know, I don't have my diploma, or my driver's license. Well, I failed the Driver's test in January, but on the 22nd I try again, and I don't think I'll fail. My next step is to see about going to school for my GED. That has to wait till the school's daycare program has an opening for him, etc. So it may not be till fall or later. If it IS that long, I'll take online classes...
I'm also planning to do schooling to attempt to get a job with the state like my mother has. It's 2k a month, and the benefits are spectacular. I'm pondering doing schooling as well for Medical Transcription or Coding.
Even when I finish schooling for these I may not be able to get work right off- I don't expect it to take four years, and until Nathan is in school (Or jobs situations work out) I won't do full time. Part-time stuff can be hard to find. BUT I will HAVE the skills and the GED to be able to work once he IS in school.
I've been suffering pretty bad depression lately. The home situation, Dave being gone 3-4 weeks (this time 6!), not having enough money to even pay rent... it's all really getting to me. I know though, even if I do this- I'll waver. It'll be long, and it'll be hard, and the reward isn't anything tangible that I can really feel. But I'm still wondering if it's a good idea. If I should, really.
So there we go. I'm not trying to do anything big right now. Baby steps. I just want to maybe be able to have our own place- maybe even have a horse, or something, and not be stuck worrying all the time and all. I'm worn down and worn out, and plotting great things has become a habit of the past.
But it's a good plan, isn't it? I just need more then a couple people to talk to about it.
And wish me luck on my test on the 22nd, please!