tuffsmom
Well-Known Member
Am I just completley awful for wanting my husband to stay out of my OB doctor's visits?? He's nearly 30 years old, and when we get into the doc's office, he turns into a 5 year old. This is our first child, and I want him to be a part of this, but I'm DONE.
Last visit (well, every visit)...he digs all through the cabinets & drawers in the room looking at all the "cool" probes and girly things (he even asked the doctor if he could take home one of the "ones" that lit up...and most of you ladies will know what one of the "ones" are)....
Well, yesterday at our ultrasound, he gets into an argument with the poor little tech (this girl wasn't more than 23 years old, she was new and scared to death). I know he was just trying to rattle her a little, but it's EMBARRASING. When she'd say "this is the head", he'd argue with her. Then he told her just to give him the wand and let him do it (thank the Lord she didn't), then asked if he could take the gel stuff home.
I SWEAR! He really is a responsible, decent human! He just turns into a child when we go to the doctor's. Any other time he's on his best behavior, but to him this is one big "funny". So I don't want him going anymore. He can sit in the waiting room or stay at home. I walk out of there fuming...every time. He doesn't understand why I'm mad, which makes me feel guilty. So am I awful for wanting him to stay away???
Last visit (well, every visit)...he digs all through the cabinets & drawers in the room looking at all the "cool" probes and girly things (he even asked the doctor if he could take home one of the "ones" that lit up...and most of you ladies will know what one of the "ones" are)....
Well, yesterday at our ultrasound, he gets into an argument with the poor little tech (this girl wasn't more than 23 years old, she was new and scared to death). I know he was just trying to rattle her a little, but it's EMBARRASING. When she'd say "this is the head", he'd argue with her. Then he told her just to give him the wand and let him do it (thank the Lord she didn't), then asked if he could take the gel stuff home.
I SWEAR! He really is a responsible, decent human! He just turns into a child when we go to the doctor's. Any other time he's on his best behavior, but to him this is one big "funny". So I don't want him going anymore. He can sit in the waiting room or stay at home. I walk out of there fuming...every time. He doesn't understand why I'm mad, which makes me feel guilty. So am I awful for wanting him to stay away???