Fantastic response Maplegum!! :aktion033: :aktion033: :aktion033:
I agree with you 100% and more!
What really concerns me here, is that certain people are advising New Mini Owner that if she does not get another mini as a companion that she should not get a mini at all, as it is cruel! Am I right?
In my opinion (and it is just my opinion), I find the people advising New Mini Owner to take on a rescue just as bad!
She has stated more than once that she is not in a position to take on two horses (for whatever reasons that are personal to her) so why would people push this fact! IF ANYTHING, taking on a rescue for a new mini owner could be a totally irresponsible choice. Depending on the condition of the rescue, she could be looking at thousands of dollars in vet bills, care etc on a horse that could have very serious pre-existing conditions (that may not be discovered until later down the track)!
The animals that have been discussed in this thread may very well not be suitable, however that should be her choice to make! She should not be made to feel guilty for owning only one horse.
I have also read Maplegum's past posts on little Bailey and I know she too, has been made to feel guilty for only having one horse. Have a look at the lengths her family is going to, to make Bailey feel loved, spoilt and cared for when he finally comes home.
I personally would not have had a companion for my own mini, had I not had my Alpacas first. Financially, it would not have been possible for us to purchase two mini's. I want to learn as much as I can with the mini I have, before jumping in and taking on more than I can handle. Surely nobody here would advise somebody to take on another horse when they do not even have the first one home. I just find it irresponsible!