LindaL
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My partner has decided that life as a couple is "too much for her to handle" right now (she lost her mom almost 3 months ago and has new *scary* health issues on top of that), so we have decided to part ways as friends. It saddens me...yes, I can't deny it...but I have survived this before and I will again. While I don't understand fully her pain and depression (my parents are still living and I am still "mostly" healthy), I do accept her desire to be alone at this time and I have and will continue to support her! I don't really want to go into too much detail about HER life and situation, so let's just say it's BETTER for us this way. Yes, I love her and I will miss her desparately, but...this is something I can not control. I want her to be "OK" and I am willing to end our relationship in order for that to happen.
Where does that leave me? Well, I have a good job that I am not willing to give up, so I will be looking for a new place closer to my job. I have a new horse (and my MinPin) that I am NOT willing to give up, so hopefully either I can find a place that will accommodate ALL of us, but if not the horse can stay boarded where he is. Showing may not be in our near future since my "ride" (Tracy's Element) will no longer be accessable and I don't own a truck/trailer.
So, I am moving yet again (this will make 6 moves since 2003!)...and this will be the 1st time since I was 21 yrs old that I will be living ALONE (no kids, husband/partners)!!!
(hmm...guess I need to change my avatar and signature, huh? *sigh*)
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Edited for spelling errors and I also wanted to mention that we are still going to Disneyland together in another week, so yes, we ARE still friends!
Where does that leave me? Well, I have a good job that I am not willing to give up, so I will be looking for a new place closer to my job. I have a new horse (and my MinPin) that I am NOT willing to give up, so hopefully either I can find a place that will accommodate ALL of us, but if not the horse can stay boarded where he is. Showing may not be in our near future since my "ride" (Tracy's Element) will no longer be accessable and I don't own a truck/trailer.
So, I am moving yet again (this will make 6 moves since 2003!)...and this will be the 1st time since I was 21 yrs old that I will be living ALONE (no kids, husband/partners)!!!
(hmm...guess I need to change my avatar and signature, huh? *sigh*)
Edited for spelling errors and I also wanted to mention that we are still going to Disneyland together in another week, so yes, we ARE still friends!
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