Okay, here is the scenario: We have a husband and wife, I will call them Tom and Mary. Tom and Mary have no kids by choice. They both have 6 figure incomes. In there mid 50's are both about ready to retire.
Mary has one brother who is married and has a daughter, age 21 who got married this year, I will call her Ellen. Tom has 2 sisters who each have 2 kids(1 boy & 1 girl each). Sister #1 has John at 21 years old and Kara at 17. Sister #2 has Nicole age 22 and Brad age 18.
Tom and Mary send out their Christmas cards with a yearly update on their lives, ie: numerous vacations taken during the year, etc. This year, they mention in a paragraph that their niece Ellen, got married this year and she and her husband are both students at College America. It was a beatuiful wedding, yada, yada, yada. Their other niece, Kara has just been accepted at College New Jersey. They are both very proud of her, yada, yada.
They then go into their closing wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
If you were the parents of Nicole and Brad, would you be upset that nothing was mentioned about them? Brad is a senior in high school and is going to be going to a technical school to learn how to do computer repair. Nicole went to same type of school and has been working in the medical field for a couple years now, and has plans to further her career by going into nursing. John, did not go to any school after high school and has been working various jobs and thinks he might want to pursue becoming a carpenter.
It seems to me as though Tom and Mary have disowned their other niece and nephews for not going to college?
Opinions please.
Mary has one brother who is married and has a daughter, age 21 who got married this year, I will call her Ellen. Tom has 2 sisters who each have 2 kids(1 boy & 1 girl each). Sister #1 has John at 21 years old and Kara at 17. Sister #2 has Nicole age 22 and Brad age 18.
Tom and Mary send out their Christmas cards with a yearly update on their lives, ie: numerous vacations taken during the year, etc. This year, they mention in a paragraph that their niece Ellen, got married this year and she and her husband are both students at College America. It was a beatuiful wedding, yada, yada, yada. Their other niece, Kara has just been accepted at College New Jersey. They are both very proud of her, yada, yada.
They then go into their closing wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
If you were the parents of Nicole and Brad, would you be upset that nothing was mentioned about them? Brad is a senior in high school and is going to be going to a technical school to learn how to do computer repair. Nicole went to same type of school and has been working in the medical field for a couple years now, and has plans to further her career by going into nursing. John, did not go to any school after high school and has been working various jobs and thinks he might want to pursue becoming a carpenter.
It seems to me as though Tom and Mary have disowned their other niece and nephews for not going to college?
Opinions please.
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