whiskeyranch
Well-Known Member
My daughter has (had) a best friend. These two have been really close for 2 years, went on vacations together, everything. I've dealt with this girl over some very serious issues. She is like one of our family.
I've noticed that this girl has been going downhill all year, grades, not going to work this summer, attitude, and some other issues I won't discuss, but my daughter hasn't seen it.
Yesterday, I pick up my daughter to take her to turn in her application for the melon shed, and she tells me that this girl, tells her other friend to tell her she is a B*** and that she's going to beat her A** as soon as she gets a chance and is going to tell her mom not to let my daughter babysit her little brother the rest of this week.
My daughter is supposed to babysit this girls brother because she doesn't want to.
Anyway, my daughter is in tears, and I tell her I will call the girls mom, since I know her well and talk to her.
I left a message at her job, she was in a meeting.
Well, this girl calls around 7 and asks to talk to my daughter, I ask what she wants and she says "Tell her she doesn't need to babysit, my grandma is going to"
I was livid, told her I hope she is proud of herself and hung up!
I asked my daughter if anything had happened between the two of them, and she says not that she is aware of, I believe her because this is somewhat typical of the girl.
I m more angry than my daughter I think. She is a good girl, all A's, will be a Varsity cheerleader next year as a Freshman, etc.
We've always told our daughter that people change and will as she goes through high school and to surround herself with positive people.
I just needed to vent, some more!! But GOSH I'M DISAPPOINTED IN THIS GIRL!!!
ANY ADVICE????? ANY????
I've noticed that this girl has been going downhill all year, grades, not going to work this summer, attitude, and some other issues I won't discuss, but my daughter hasn't seen it.
Yesterday, I pick up my daughter to take her to turn in her application for the melon shed, and she tells me that this girl, tells her other friend to tell her she is a B*** and that she's going to beat her A** as soon as she gets a chance and is going to tell her mom not to let my daughter babysit her little brother the rest of this week.
My daughter is supposed to babysit this girls brother because she doesn't want to.
Anyway, my daughter is in tears, and I tell her I will call the girls mom, since I know her well and talk to her.
I left a message at her job, she was in a meeting.
Well, this girl calls around 7 and asks to talk to my daughter, I ask what she wants and she says "Tell her she doesn't need to babysit, my grandma is going to"
I was livid, told her I hope she is proud of herself and hung up!
I asked my daughter if anything had happened between the two of them, and she says not that she is aware of, I believe her because this is somewhat typical of the girl.
I m more angry than my daughter I think. She is a good girl, all A's, will be a Varsity cheerleader next year as a Freshman, etc.
We've always told our daughter that people change and will as she goes through high school and to surround herself with positive people.
I just needed to vent, some more!! But GOSH I'M DISAPPOINTED IN THIS GIRL!!!
ANY ADVICE????? ANY????