stormo41
Well-Known Member
Hi everyone.
well this is my issue, me and boyfriend moved in with each other about a month ago. Everything is going very well with us but for some reason his mom and older brother think i'm evil and needless to say we don't get along all to well but we stand each other when we have to.
The other day when i came from work my boyfriend told me that his mom wants me to sign something saying that if we break up or anything happens to rob I wont go after any of her money, she has bonds in his name or something. I do believe in Canada or at least Ontario that once we have been living together for 6 months we become a comman law couple. My boyfriend told me that he told her i would not sign it but she has not asked me yet and i know she will. I don't really want to sign anything like that...even more so if she is going to write it up. I don't even know what it is that she doesnt want me to have, not that i would go after anything if something were to happen, but of course she thinks i'm evil and that i don't really love her son rather his money and her money.
I know it's no uncomman to have in-law issues/problems, but i think this has gone to far now....we are not even in-laws yet! I have never done anything to his mom or brother to make them think of me this way, I have always been nice and sociable to them. I even bought things for his brothers house and dog when my boyfriend was living with his brother.....not to mention of a top to bottom cleaning of his house (it was really nasty). it is very frustating for me to not be accepted by his mom and brother, but at the end of i day i know it doesn't matter because i'm in love with him and he is in love with me and that is all that matters. But what really makes me mad is the way they treat him. for example my boyfriend got is BA in couputer sicince a few weeks ago, not only that but with hounrs, and had the highest mark in his class and was awarded the deans prize for the highest mark of everyone graduating that day. My parents were there and my dad said to his mom that she must be so proud of her son she said that he could have done better if he took eaiser courses. She always says he can do better at everything school, work, life choices. she also tells him he is a bad son if he doesn't or cant drop everything when she needs something fixed. or when he wont drive her to Ohio (from Ontaio) when he has classes. His brother is the same way, when rob was living with his brother his brother wanted him to make him breakfast everyday even though rob is gone for work when his brother is just waking up, and take him out for lunch everyday he is off work or starts after noon. He tells rob that he is cheep because he wont spend $200 to go snowboarding with him, meanwhile rob doesn't even like snowboarding, his brother would leave him on the beginner hills to go the advanced hills so they wounld not evern be spending the day together. anyway i just relaized that i've been going on and on for much to long.
thanks for letting me rant
well this is my issue, me and boyfriend moved in with each other about a month ago. Everything is going very well with us but for some reason his mom and older brother think i'm evil and needless to say we don't get along all to well but we stand each other when we have to.
The other day when i came from work my boyfriend told me that his mom wants me to sign something saying that if we break up or anything happens to rob I wont go after any of her money, she has bonds in his name or something. I do believe in Canada or at least Ontario that once we have been living together for 6 months we become a comman law couple. My boyfriend told me that he told her i would not sign it but she has not asked me yet and i know she will. I don't really want to sign anything like that...even more so if she is going to write it up. I don't even know what it is that she doesnt want me to have, not that i would go after anything if something were to happen, but of course she thinks i'm evil and that i don't really love her son rather his money and her money.
I know it's no uncomman to have in-law issues/problems, but i think this has gone to far now....we are not even in-laws yet! I have never done anything to his mom or brother to make them think of me this way, I have always been nice and sociable to them. I even bought things for his brothers house and dog when my boyfriend was living with his brother.....not to mention of a top to bottom cleaning of his house (it was really nasty). it is very frustating for me to not be accepted by his mom and brother, but at the end of i day i know it doesn't matter because i'm in love with him and he is in love with me and that is all that matters. But what really makes me mad is the way they treat him. for example my boyfriend got is BA in couputer sicince a few weeks ago, not only that but with hounrs, and had the highest mark in his class and was awarded the deans prize for the highest mark of everyone graduating that day. My parents were there and my dad said to his mom that she must be so proud of her son she said that he could have done better if he took eaiser courses. She always says he can do better at everything school, work, life choices. she also tells him he is a bad son if he doesn't or cant drop everything when she needs something fixed. or when he wont drive her to Ohio (from Ontaio) when he has classes. His brother is the same way, when rob was living with his brother his brother wanted him to make him breakfast everyday even though rob is gone for work when his brother is just waking up, and take him out for lunch everyday he is off work or starts after noon. He tells rob that he is cheep because he wont spend $200 to go snowboarding with him, meanwhile rob doesn't even like snowboarding, his brother would leave him on the beginner hills to go the advanced hills so they wounld not evern be spending the day together. anyway i just relaized that i've been going on and on for much to long.
thanks for letting me rant