So glad all is now well.
For future reference you need a "lamb teat" on an ordinary baby bottle. Milk the mare straight into the bottle and milk her quite aggressively- I will happily strip her out that first time as I keep all the milk anyway- this encourages the mare to produce more milk.
The lamb teat is very easy to get into the foals mouth and I have never had one refuse to nurse from this sort of teat provided the suck reflex is good.
It is also sold without a hole so you can make whatever size you wish.
If the foals suck reflex is not strong you can dribble milk into the mouth using this teat, which is much less aggressive than using a syringe, I have never used a syringe and feel it could cause aspiration in unseasoned hands.
I give my foals a bottle as norm, as I can then get a couple of hours sleep as the muconium is passed almost immediately when this happens, and, as I said, Arabs and Minis, I have never had a foal not take this teat.
I have never tried a human teat as I consider them much too small, hence the problems latching on.
Oh, sorry, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
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