RobinRTrueJoy
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Lara,
first, let me express my sympathies to you and your family. I don't read the back porch very often, just the forum and tonight I had more time, so here I am.
When I worked Intensive care, I was directly involved with asking families for organ donations. Difficult for me to ask, but really tough for the families to decide.
Let me mention a few things that may be of some comfort to you, I hope..
I have been at the actual surgeries when they take the organs and tissues from the donars. I want you to know that they are EXTREMELY RESPECTFUL of the donar. There are no jokes during this surgery and no kidding around. They are quiet and honor the donar in that way.
The incisions lines are closed in the same way as any surgery would be, as if the person would have lived. I have been a nurse for many years(31) and know that despite closing the incision lines, many times fluids continue to leak, it can not be helped usually..
You should know that the bones that are donated are usually donated to people that without the donar bones would live a poor quality of life or even die., I was involved with a donation that involved bones, and our intensive care unit recieved a letter from an anonymous recipent . He was losing his arm due to cancer. Without the donar bone, he would have lost that arm. He had recently had a baby girl and was able to hold her because of the donar family's genorosity.He was so grateful and had written to the family and our unit via the donar program, while remaining anonymous.
Please remember that the recipent ALWAYS remembers the donar every day of their lives. In most cases without the genorous donation these people would have died and they know it. They are SO VERY GRATEFUL.
You and your family did a selfless thing. There is a saying about organ donation.
It says:
Don't take your organs to Heave. Heaven knows we need them here.
I am an organ donar( someday) as is most of my family.
Your loss/sacrifice and then your genorosity provided hope, help to several people. Thier families remember you also, your loss and grief, you have not been forgotten and will never be, just like your loved one. Without your gift, these families would have lost their loved one too.
You did the most unselfish thing a person can ever do. God bless you and your family.
first, let me express my sympathies to you and your family. I don't read the back porch very often, just the forum and tonight I had more time, so here I am.
When I worked Intensive care, I was directly involved with asking families for organ donations. Difficult for me to ask, but really tough for the families to decide.
Let me mention a few things that may be of some comfort to you, I hope..
I have been at the actual surgeries when they take the organs and tissues from the donars. I want you to know that they are EXTREMELY RESPECTFUL of the donar. There are no jokes during this surgery and no kidding around. They are quiet and honor the donar in that way.
The incisions lines are closed in the same way as any surgery would be, as if the person would have lived. I have been a nurse for many years(31) and know that despite closing the incision lines, many times fluids continue to leak, it can not be helped usually..
You should know that the bones that are donated are usually donated to people that without the donar bones would live a poor quality of life or even die., I was involved with a donation that involved bones, and our intensive care unit recieved a letter from an anonymous recipent . He was losing his arm due to cancer. Without the donar bone, he would have lost that arm. He had recently had a baby girl and was able to hold her because of the donar family's genorosity.He was so grateful and had written to the family and our unit via the donar program, while remaining anonymous.
Please remember that the recipent ALWAYS remembers the donar every day of their lives. In most cases without the genorous donation these people would have died and they know it. They are SO VERY GRATEFUL.
You and your family did a selfless thing. There is a saying about organ donation.
It says:
Don't take your organs to Heave. Heaven knows we need them here.
I am an organ donar( someday) as is most of my family.
Your loss/sacrifice and then your genorosity provided hope, help to several people. Thier families remember you also, your loss and grief, you have not been forgotten and will never be, just like your loved one. Without your gift, these families would have lost their loved one too.
You did the most unselfish thing a person can ever do. God bless you and your family.