Connie P
Well-Known Member
Carolyn,
You have been given some great advice here so I am just going to give you a hug ((( )))
You have been given some great advice here so I am just going to give you a hug ((( )))
I don't know about the laws in IN but, in OH, the horses in question are considered part of the marital property and cannot be sold at this time, and neither can anything else. I know someone in exactly this position, and they are STILL waiting for the judge's decision on the division of assets. The "final" hearing was back on Dec. 9. (And, trust me, it's not just the women that get screwed in a divorce!!) Unfortunatley, it may well happen that the horses will be sold at auction, and THAT's where your friends will be able to step up and help. Your lawyer really is the best one to advise you on this.My "things" mean nothing to me. My animals mean everything to me.Find a TRUSTED Female friend preferably one he doesn't know about..
Sell every horse to her for $50.00 if you have ten horses, she will give you a check for $500.00 You can give him a check for $250.00
Cash her check( for the bank record) Do all the amha paperwork.
You can pay her back later and put the horses back in your name later..
If he complains about the money, tell him, Hey the market sucks right now!
I hate that women get nailed to the wall in divorces!
I wish you all the best,
Robin
My lawyer just called. The court sent over an order for me to get an Equine Appraiser.To get a price on them, have to get 2.
Maybe to come up with a dollar amount I can use to trade him?? Not sure yet. But I hope.
Thank you ALL SOOOO much. Your support means a lot.
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