nootka
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Hi,
I was thinking today about my own best friend, even though now that I'm older I have lots of people I consider "best" in some respect or other, even some that frequent this board, but there is only one when I think of that one best friend that has a childhood to adulthood connection and thankfully, she and I are still best friends.
I met Chris in Freshman year high school. We had Art General 1 together w/Mr. Smith. We all sat at the same table. I was a shy kid w/glasses and a Garfield T-shirt. She was blonde w/red dyed ends (not natural red, but blood red), punk buttons (keep in mind this was 1981), and dressed like a London punk rocker. We were both outcasts for different reasons. I was too shy to be popular and she had made choices in music and outward appearance that were less than popular.
We both changed a LOT during those four years of school, both becoming more outspoken and more "ourselves" but we found we had a lot more in common than we thought, too.
It came down to changing our schedules around so we could be in the same classes, and when we graduated, we finally found a job together at an Insurance company.
When we weren't hanging out together, we were on the phone together, so inseparable were we.
Guys came and went, and some threatened to break us up. Our relationship waxed and waned though it was always very intense. When we were mad at each other, we were very mad at each other, and I know we hurt each other's feelings a LOT. There were times we didn't speak to each other, but we made it through. She's had three marriages and now two children. I've had one marriage and three children (when I had my first son, she was not of a mindset to have kids so we drifted apart a while then), but I am SO GLAD we did not lose touch for good. We have forgiven each other a lot, and I would not trade that best friend status for anything.
It's so funny to be able to send a three word email which says volumes. We still "get" our secret code, and of course either of us can sometimes give the other a look which explains it all. Priceless. We laugh and cry together and I know I have one strong woman in my corner no matter what comes. I can't see anything that would truly put us asunder at this point in life.
Wish I could find the pic of us together in one of those photo booths at fifteen years old. We were goofing around w/a paper bag and I think both of us had it on our heads in different pics but the expressions and how young we were was amusing. I would post it w/this post. Will do if I come across it.
Would love to hear about other best friends....
Liz M.
I was thinking today about my own best friend, even though now that I'm older I have lots of people I consider "best" in some respect or other, even some that frequent this board, but there is only one when I think of that one best friend that has a childhood to adulthood connection and thankfully, she and I are still best friends.
I met Chris in Freshman year high school. We had Art General 1 together w/Mr. Smith. We all sat at the same table. I was a shy kid w/glasses and a Garfield T-shirt. She was blonde w/red dyed ends (not natural red, but blood red), punk buttons (keep in mind this was 1981), and dressed like a London punk rocker. We were both outcasts for different reasons. I was too shy to be popular and she had made choices in music and outward appearance that were less than popular.
We both changed a LOT during those four years of school, both becoming more outspoken and more "ourselves" but we found we had a lot more in common than we thought, too.
It came down to changing our schedules around so we could be in the same classes, and when we graduated, we finally found a job together at an Insurance company.
When we weren't hanging out together, we were on the phone together, so inseparable were we.
Guys came and went, and some threatened to break us up. Our relationship waxed and waned though it was always very intense. When we were mad at each other, we were very mad at each other, and I know we hurt each other's feelings a LOT. There were times we didn't speak to each other, but we made it through. She's had three marriages and now two children. I've had one marriage and three children (when I had my first son, she was not of a mindset to have kids so we drifted apart a while then), but I am SO GLAD we did not lose touch for good. We have forgiven each other a lot, and I would not trade that best friend status for anything.
It's so funny to be able to send a three word email which says volumes. We still "get" our secret code, and of course either of us can sometimes give the other a look which explains it all. Priceless. We laugh and cry together and I know I have one strong woman in my corner no matter what comes. I can't see anything that would truly put us asunder at this point in life.
Wish I could find the pic of us together in one of those photo booths at fifteen years old. We were goofing around w/a paper bag and I think both of us had it on our heads in different pics but the expressions and how young we were was amusing. I would post it w/this post. Will do if I come across it.
Would love to hear about other best friends....
Liz M.