Okay, after reading a couple of the responses I must ask... If you felt the need to spray someone with pepper spray or to fire at someone with a tazor, would you really care if you harmed them? I mean, if I were being attacked in a parking lot or if my home were being invaded I would not give a GOSH DARN if I sprayed them with poison, blinding wasp spray or gave them heart failure with a tazor! What the...
You know...my husband always tried to talk me into getting something for protection and I never wanted to because I was always afraid that I'd "hurt" someone. I figured that I'd just grab a bat or something close by if something ever happened.
When my neighbor (a 19 year old ex gangmember/drug dealer) tried to enter my home, it was broad daylight and I have a habit of not locking my door because my mom and brother are our next door neighbors. It's kind of hard to explain, but our duplex is an "L" shape, and my mom's bedroom is in my yard. Our front doors are literally 10 feet from each other. It just so happened that they weren't home, and luckily I heard my front gate open/close. I rushed to my door and locked it, then peeked out the peephole to see that it was him. He knocked twice, then started saying something about knowing I was home because he could hear me (must have been the tv). He then wiggled the door knob and when he realized it was locked he muttered "fine, if that's the way you want it to be". Then he left, just to return a half hour later after my husband had come home. I guess he figured that I really wasn't home and now that the car was here, he could "talk" to me. It was really scary because I was literally a minute away from not having the door locked. What if I had been in a bedroom or bathroom and never heard the gate? What if he had actually entered my home? My husband did stand outside and talk with him (could smell the alcohol on him) and told him to stay away from his wife. It's been almost a year now and he hasn't come back.
But I can honestly say now...it was the most scary feeling and should someone enter my home uninvited, I don't care what I have to do to protect myself. Pepper spray and a tazer are a lot better than shooting someone in my opinion, but if they have entered my home and I try a non-deadly way to take them down, then I can have a clear conscience should they have a bad reaction to it. If they valued their life, they wouldn't be sneaking into someone's home! I don't know what his intentions were, and I doubt he was thinking logically at the time.