Minimor, thank you for this excellent description. I hope to always do the same as I get better - Lacey is very light in the reins usually and responds to squeezes.
I am trying to develop better reinsmanship and I'll keep your image in my mind as an example.
I'll bet most people who drive don't have the light feel that you are describing, along with many people who ride with heavy hands in a jointed snaffle.
In riding I've hated the feel of the bit in their mouth so much that I rode the last 10 years in a rope halter (they can respond to a very light feel there too.) However, it isn't safe to drive in a rope halter, so I need to develop an understanding of using the bit and reins.
There are some things I don't understand:
1. With the weight of lines (more full size driving than minis) how can there not be the nutcracker effect on a snaffle just from the weight?
2. In a driving lesson I took a couple of years ago, the instructor wanted me to "take more contact" more, more, more, etc. When she finally said "There, he's going much better for you now," I was pulling with both hands to 15 or 20 pounds or more. This certainly was not using one rein at a time. It was pulling both reins with heavy hands. He may have been hauled into a posture that looked right, but it sure was not "contact", it was abuse.
3. In dressage lessons in the past, the instructors were always telling me "more contact, more contact". But not telling me what you are saying, above. (Or anything else other than that there was too much slack in the lines.) ***I still do not understand how one can pay $45 or $60 or more for a lesson and not get useful information - the common way of teaching that I've experienced (until I gave up!!!) is to have you go around and around in circles until it "happens" automatically. I only learn from detailed information!
How does one develop "more contact" with one rein at a time? (Without pulling.)
Do you take a feel on one rein, then the other, I suppose (half halt type). If the horse accepts this contact or feel, then you have a live contact with the mouth. How does one take "more contact, more contact" if the horse does not give to it? More feel on each rein until you get a give?
What do you do when you get the give? Release? How long is your release?
4. How do you push the horse forward onto the bit? Verbal encouragement, clucking, smooching? The whip?
So you hold your hands steady and the horse takes more contact itself? Or if not accepting the contact, puts more pressure on the bit itself? Then you hold steady until you get a give? Then you release to reward and teach?
If you could give me some clues how you break down what you said above, I would appreciate it! If not, that's ok, I like the image you described.
Thanks again