VerticallyChallenged
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I am having a lot of fun with my new girls! Gracey, the younger of the two, has been driving VERY well....she's a little spitfire...or can be, but put her in front of a cart and she knows her job! She doesn't care about being separated from Kochia, but Gracey has lived the 6 years of her life as a lone donkey, with a goat for a companion. Brief history on Kochia, the 14 year old, she came off a breeding farm a year ago last month. So of course she was around lots of other donkeys! She was a brood jennet there. She was sold with her last foal a year ago last month...... This spring she was sold again, with her yearling foal, and months later they were put up for sale. The little jack went first, and left her on her own for a month or so (she had mini horses, but no donkeys.) Now she's here. All of that in one year. I'm sure she's afraid she'll lose the buddy she's gotten attached to here. When I take Gracey out to drive, Kochia doesn't bray, but paces hysterically, rears, gets herself quite worked up. Sure, great excuse to get another donkey...and some day I will, but now two is the limit. I have thought about having her bred yet this year....then next year about this time she'll have a foal if all goes well...and there's my third! I feel bad for her, and it doesn't matter who is brought out...Kochia is the same way if I take her out and leave Gracey in. What should I do? I know they like to be around their own kind, but I also would like to drive Gracey. Kochia is not left alone when Gracey comes out, she is in with my miniature horse as well. In horses, I would surely consider this not acceptable and work on it. Separating for longer times to get them comfortable with being able to be taken from their buddies. But I am thinking donkeys are different first of all, and secondly, I probably need to have some compassion for what she has been through in the past year. She lost a buddy, now has one, and doesn't want to lose this one either. But, I want her to be ok with being separated for a little while here and there. Am I asking too much? Should I work on this, or just give her time?
Angie
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