I know that the funeral director Mr Reed had to add more pages to the sign in book at least three times while we were there. The line to get into the front door was long. LOTS AND LOTS of people there. Most of Michaels teachers, classmates, and just buddies stood in groups just hugging each other and crying.
And the people just kept coming. As we entered into the parlor, it was obvious who was who even tho I had never meet Marty or any of her family members. Here stood a lady graciously greeting people, and sharing memories of a wonderful soul.
I signed the book, and signed from ALL THE FORUM MEMBERS, WE ALL LOVE YOU!! Also, gave Marty the emails that I had printed out before we left. To the left of the room was a beautiful powder blue casket, on top of that was a gorgeous spray of flowers, and a Jeans jacket with Michaels name on it. To the left of the casket was Michaels cap and robe from his graduation. Above the cap and robe was Michaels High School Diploma. We walked up to Marty, and I introduced myself, my husband David and my grandson Devon. Marty seemed so surprised that we came. She seemed okay, but you could tell she was well medicated. She introduced me to her husband Jerry, and then I turned to see this boy that just broke my heart, Daniel, he hugs hard, and you could tell that his heart just ached for his best friend, his brother. I couldn't at that time spent much time with Marty cause the line in back of me was growing fast. So, we just kinda walked around the room looking at the pictures of Michael.
In the adjoining room was a TV that had a slide show of Michael thru his years. showing horses, his Senior Prom, several horse shoes, him and his big horse in a baby swimming pool. Of course the ones of Michael and the kittens. I sat and watched that several times. Also, on floor in front of the TV was several trophies,and more and more flowers.
Finally Marty, was available to talk alittle more, so outside we went, I know her Dr was there, sitting on the sofa just kinda keeping an eye on Marty. Since Marty and I both have the terrible habit of smoking, we sat outsdie for a short time talking and having a much needed cigerette.
Its funny how medicated people seem to be so honest in there responses, cause she told me that she didn't know I was this nice. I told her about what all was going on, on the forum, she didnt seem to understand why so many people cared that much about her and Michael. I told her that everyone that couldnt make it, wished they could be there for her and they all wanted to let her know just how much she meant to everyone.
She is still looking for Michael to come to her. Bless her heart. She seemed even more medicated and I said goodbye to her at least 10 times but she had questions about when we lost Joshua, and that she didn't feel that that was Michael in the casket. I know what that feels like, I think its your mind trying to protect your own sanity. Its like you can only take in reality alittle bit at a time. that is very hard to explain.
Her daughter in law, is just an awesome person. Loves Marty, and is very concerned for her and Jerry. But I don't think we have alot to fear of Marty being alone too much, so many people were there do whatever she needs.
I am not sure where I got the courage to go into the funeral home but I am sure alot of it came from Joshua. I am just glad that I was there!! I felt honored to show my respect to such an awesome young man.
I have blisters on my feet. and very tired. I know I covered such a small portion of the funeral but can add later if anyone wants me too..
She knows you all love her. and she needs our prayers.
Lara and David Pier
And the people just kept coming. As we entered into the parlor, it was obvious who was who even tho I had never meet Marty or any of her family members. Here stood a lady graciously greeting people, and sharing memories of a wonderful soul.
I signed the book, and signed from ALL THE FORUM MEMBERS, WE ALL LOVE YOU!! Also, gave Marty the emails that I had printed out before we left. To the left of the room was a beautiful powder blue casket, on top of that was a gorgeous spray of flowers, and a Jeans jacket with Michaels name on it. To the left of the casket was Michaels cap and robe from his graduation. Above the cap and robe was Michaels High School Diploma. We walked up to Marty, and I introduced myself, my husband David and my grandson Devon. Marty seemed so surprised that we came. She seemed okay, but you could tell she was well medicated. She introduced me to her husband Jerry, and then I turned to see this boy that just broke my heart, Daniel, he hugs hard, and you could tell that his heart just ached for his best friend, his brother. I couldn't at that time spent much time with Marty cause the line in back of me was growing fast. So, we just kinda walked around the room looking at the pictures of Michael.
In the adjoining room was a TV that had a slide show of Michael thru his years. showing horses, his Senior Prom, several horse shoes, him and his big horse in a baby swimming pool. Of course the ones of Michael and the kittens. I sat and watched that several times. Also, on floor in front of the TV was several trophies,and more and more flowers.
Finally Marty, was available to talk alittle more, so outside we went, I know her Dr was there, sitting on the sofa just kinda keeping an eye on Marty. Since Marty and I both have the terrible habit of smoking, we sat outsdie for a short time talking and having a much needed cigerette.
Its funny how medicated people seem to be so honest in there responses, cause she told me that she didn't know I was this nice. I told her about what all was going on, on the forum, she didnt seem to understand why so many people cared that much about her and Michael. I told her that everyone that couldnt make it, wished they could be there for her and they all wanted to let her know just how much she meant to everyone.
She is still looking for Michael to come to her. Bless her heart. She seemed even more medicated and I said goodbye to her at least 10 times but she had questions about when we lost Joshua, and that she didn't feel that that was Michael in the casket. I know what that feels like, I think its your mind trying to protect your own sanity. Its like you can only take in reality alittle bit at a time. that is very hard to explain.
Her daughter in law, is just an awesome person. Loves Marty, and is very concerned for her and Jerry. But I don't think we have alot to fear of Marty being alone too much, so many people were there do whatever she needs.
I am not sure where I got the courage to go into the funeral home but I am sure alot of it came from Joshua. I am just glad that I was there!! I felt honored to show my respect to such an awesome young man.
I have blisters on my feet. and very tired. I know I covered such a small portion of the funeral but can add later if anyone wants me too..
She knows you all love her. and she needs our prayers.
Lara and David Pier
