Can you stand another "Betsy story?"
When I got my silly mule, she was the only equine we had for about 3 months. She entertained herself by chasing the goats, chickens, and ducks on occasion, and interacted with me, but it was clear that we weren't enough. She would gaze off into the distance and let loose with that sound that only a mule can make!
I knew she had a buddy at the place she had come from, a mini weanling named Syd. Syd was having problems of her own. She was the only horse in her pen, and had become a regular Houdini at getting into the other pasture. Problem was, the only other horse there was a 3-year-old QH gelding that bullied her ferociously. She seemed to feel it was better to be with someone who beat her up, than to be alone.
Syd's owner and I agreed that Syd should come live with us. Syd had never been trailered, not even trained to lead, so my daughter and I led Betsy down to help us walk Syd back. When Betsy saw Syd, she became so excited she almost flipped over backwards! When I let Betsy loose in Syd's pen, they immediately began mutual grooming. With their necks curved around each other, it looked for all the world like a horsey hug.
Yes, I do have buddy problems with Betsy. She hates to leave our place without Syd - unless it was her idea to go in the first place! I can work with Syd solo, no problem there. When I see them playing together, I'm sure this is the best solution for all of us (the goats, ducks and chickens might have a different opinion!)