YEP..sounds like we all agree on this topic, I was just curious as a buyer what the seller thinks of us. I am one of those that needs a quiet horse that goes with my personality....if I buy the pretty shiney one that is a show stopper but has an attitude Well, then we will be bickering all the time , and thats no way to live for a horse or human. I let the buyer get to know me , then pair us up ...and if i like the horse too ...well then its GREAT! the horse I am looking at today is quiet , easy to train , and needs a soft hand touch...however her head is not dished like I like it to be , its more of a Quarter horse head , but she has a real soft eye. I know thats OK for the judging,she is just a bit of a "wallflower" and so quiet you dont even notice her. But in a way I like that "less drama"...I am nervious enough at the shows , I need a horse that can say "MOM relax, were gonna be fine"