I have to admit..and apologize. I have just now opened this topic even though I have seen it here. It is such an overwhelming pain thinking of anyone losing a child that I selfishly could not bring myself to even read anything about it.
I can not imagine the pain you went thru and how hard it is now on those milestone days and how isolating it can be judging by my own selfish reaction my thoughts are with all of you and my sincere apologies for getting so caught up in my own fear and not knowing the right thing to say that I chose to ignore it all together. I have learned from this though and I thank you for that.