Roxy's Run
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As most of you already know, my boyfriend has severe peripheral neuropathy in both legs and both hands. He cannot feel from his knees down to his feet and has lost most use of his hands. :no: We still don't know why, but that is another long story.
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Anyway, he can get around with use of a walker but he cannot go for long distances - only about 100 ft or so. He gets real weak and his legs start to hurt really bad. So I wound up getting him a used wheelchair for $3 from a local store that sells things that have been donated and all proceeds go to a local Hospital. :aktion033: Both he and I treasure the wheelchair and are grateful for it. But because he is home all day long everyday by himself, I see that he is getting severe cabin fever and I see that his mind is not like it used to be.
I chalk this up from lack of challenging his brain and thinking things out and have been trying to get him out more to see different things and go to different places. Even though he argues with me about going somewhere I force him to go and once we are at our destination, sometimes it is hard to get him to leave. :bgrin Plus when we go places, we are both "sidetracked" from our everyday stress and depression from this whole ordeal. We laugh, we carry on, and just have fun together instead of sitting at home staring at each other fighting about how we are going to pay bills, keep a roof over our heads (another long story - but a serious one at that), why can't the doctors figure out what is causing his problem, why he can't do things he used to do, why have his "friends" disappeared, why does everything have to fall on me, the horses have to go, etc. It is a sad sight really. :no: But this is not the point of this post. I'm sorry, I'm babbling.
The other day I took off from work and took him to the boardwalk where I pushed him along the entire length of the boardwalk (about 1 1/2 miles one way) and then last night I took him to a local reservoir and I pushed him part way through the trail around the lake (total trail all the way around is 5 miles). I wanted to go further on the trail, but it is a dirt/gravel trail with many hills and wooden bridges. I was EXHAUSTED from pushing him. What a workout!!!!
Sorry, so long, but my questions are: Does anyone have a electric mobility scooter or a power wheelchair? If so, what kind do you have? Which would you prefer? I have been looking at a four wheel scooter thinking that is the most stable for him considering we do go "off road" quite a bit and I'm not sure that a power wheelchair is stable enough for that. I think the same with the three wheel scooter - not stable enough for what we want to do. I can see him toppling over once the ground gets uneven or bumpy.
He does not have medical insurance so to say. He is part of the NJ Medicaid program so I will be calling them to see how and if he can get one. He is considered permanently disabled and receives SSI benefits. Does anyone know the steps I need to take with Medicaid? Any hints? Anything else that may help us out in this situation? We do not have the money to go buy one since we are hanging on by a thread as it is with just my salary and his tiny SSI payments. So if Medicaid doesn't pay for it, I guess it is back to pushing him around in the wheelchair. I have been looking around on Craigslist, newpapers, etc. for used ones, but we just cannot afford it. I just don't have the money.
I would like to see him more mobile at home so he can ride around the place when I'm at work and doesn't have to wait for me to come and get his wheelchair. Or he gets the garden tractor and rides that around but with the price of gasoline . . . plus it is real noisy.
: Plus it would be nice to walk beside him instead of behind him when we go places. I also think that the feeling of independence is a major plus for him as I know he is really depressed about relying on me for most everything. Plus it is less work for me. :bgrin
Any information or experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thanks alot. Again, I'm sorry this turned out so long. I guess I needed to vent a little as well as ask my questions.
Linda
Roxy's Run Miniatures
Anyway, he can get around with use of a walker but he cannot go for long distances - only about 100 ft or so. He gets real weak and his legs start to hurt really bad. So I wound up getting him a used wheelchair for $3 from a local store that sells things that have been donated and all proceeds go to a local Hospital. :aktion033: Both he and I treasure the wheelchair and are grateful for it. But because he is home all day long everyday by himself, I see that he is getting severe cabin fever and I see that his mind is not like it used to be.
The other day I took off from work and took him to the boardwalk where I pushed him along the entire length of the boardwalk (about 1 1/2 miles one way) and then last night I took him to a local reservoir and I pushed him part way through the trail around the lake (total trail all the way around is 5 miles). I wanted to go further on the trail, but it is a dirt/gravel trail with many hills and wooden bridges. I was EXHAUSTED from pushing him. What a workout!!!!
Sorry, so long, but my questions are: Does anyone have a electric mobility scooter or a power wheelchair? If so, what kind do you have? Which would you prefer? I have been looking at a four wheel scooter thinking that is the most stable for him considering we do go "off road" quite a bit and I'm not sure that a power wheelchair is stable enough for that. I think the same with the three wheel scooter - not stable enough for what we want to do. I can see him toppling over once the ground gets uneven or bumpy.
He does not have medical insurance so to say. He is part of the NJ Medicaid program so I will be calling them to see how and if he can get one. He is considered permanently disabled and receives SSI benefits. Does anyone know the steps I need to take with Medicaid? Any hints? Anything else that may help us out in this situation? We do not have the money to go buy one since we are hanging on by a thread as it is with just my salary and his tiny SSI payments. So if Medicaid doesn't pay for it, I guess it is back to pushing him around in the wheelchair. I have been looking around on Craigslist, newpapers, etc. for used ones, but we just cannot afford it. I just don't have the money.
I would like to see him more mobile at home so he can ride around the place when I'm at work and doesn't have to wait for me to come and get his wheelchair. Or he gets the garden tractor and rides that around but with the price of gasoline . . . plus it is real noisy.
Any information or experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thanks alot. Again, I'm sorry this turned out so long. I guess I needed to vent a little as well as ask my questions.
Linda
Roxy's Run Miniatures