Not sure I get it right, but I get it the same now for a large number of years. Mayballine Great Lash (washable) Mascara, darkest brown. Eyeliner always. Eyeshadow sometimes.
Yesterday, w/ eyeshadow:
Recently w/ only (lots...) of eyeliner and mascara (yea, the pink w/ green top), but no eyeshadow.
I like it... but of course, or that's not what I'd have done for the past upteen years! I do not feel "okay" going out w/o eye makeup. Until a couple years ago, I had to wear eyeglasses and couldn't get the eyeshadow thing going. It dusted up my lenses LOL! So I am still working through a learning curve. I will fool with fake hair, any day, but not fake eyelashes.
My eyelashes, like my hair unless it gets some artificial help (it always does) is VERY thin and baby fine. I do my foundation, eyeliner, and then dust with actually baby powder (I have an ultra fair complexion), and then I use the mascara. I think it helps that there is a little bit of powder of my fine, sparce lashes prior to the application of the mascara.
Additionally, I can be showered, dressed and madeup in 20 minutes if I'm really trying to get out the door fast... so at least there's that!
HOWEVER, for a big event... I'd try the false eyelashes, and the non-washable mascara. Plus, I can't get through a wedding w/o crying so I'd need something more than my "Great Lash" every day go to.
DESTINY, you are rocking it girl!!! I'd bend your arm to come help me if we were close enough