I agree. It wasn't fear that caused me to sell my Peruvians, just an attempt to keep the peace within my large "human" herd. My parents always understood my need for owning horses, but none of my children ever got the "addiction" to horses, so my support for my Arabian, Peruvian Pasos and my miniatures always came from my parents. When my dad died, my sons tried to take over the "care and feeding" of mom, which I quickly put an end to. But I do strive to keep the peace.
Just recently my youngest son (one of the twins -- 33 yo) told me I should buy myself another riding horse, as he knew it was "in my soul" and told me to ignore his siblings. That's the first time any of my children has even brought up my owning another riding horse. The other 2 boys "jumped him" and asked him if he was out of his mind? But he stood his ground for me, and said at this point she should do what makes her happy -- not just make us happy. So, I've been seriously thinking about it again.
Trouble is, where I live there are no good trails to ride, and very few places to actually ride at all. I hate riding along the highways, but with so many ranches and farms around almost everything is fenced, so there is no way to go for just a nice ride. So, I'm still thinking about it. I miss the good old days when I was young and had 100 acre farm to ride in, and lots of unfenced land around to just piddle away the hours on horseback. That was a lifetime ago, I guess, but the memories are still good -- just hard to make the same type of new ones with no where to just go ride.....