studiowvw
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I took Lacey out for a drive today down the rail trail. Very relieved, it was a good improvement.
Thinking about why it was better than the last few drives...
I guess the best results come from doing a program of spending time with her and Diesel in the last couple of weeks - I've been taking them for 2 mile walks together (to improve fitness of all three of us).
Seems our worst drives are when I yank her out of her do-nothing routine, put her in the trailer and take her to an event (no big surprise there). Our best drives are when I've spent some time improving our relationship (while not hitched).
Deerflies are gone so I can now actually get out there with them!
The last few drives she's been pulling like a freight train - or I guess I'm pulling like a freight train but what do you do when she is wound up too tight and her legs won't quit?
I've been watching some of my friends drive and they seem to sit relaxed with their hands down on their knees, horse is relaxed. It's the first drive since I wrecked my shoulder again a couple of weeks ago, so a good time to try that.
I already know I get the best stops and slowdowns just by thinking them. The worst ones are when I'm yelling WHOA and pulling with a whole lotta pull - but as I said, what do I do when all she wants to do is run? When she's already been running for an hour - she doesn't get tired.
I think it is in both our heads - we both get wound up. I watched video of us from a few weeks ago - she does everything I ask but her preference would be to just canter or trot FAST!
I also realize that I get bored when she walks (very bad)!
So my plan was to stay soft, squeeze one rein at a time (from previous advice here last spring), require her to walk at the beginning, and avoid getting hardline and impatient. Even though I must have asked her to walk about 50 times, then she would jump right back up into a jog, trot or racing trot. I used the technique of allowing her to make the mistake, correcting, then going back to neutral and allowing her to make the decision to make the mistake again. Over and over and over and over............!!!!! But I did not become impatient. When she was ignoring me, I would just pull her head further around with one rein until she slowed down, then release again.
Anyways it was a great drive, probably one of our better ones. Her head stayed down and she mostly stayed soft - so did I!
I know I've created some of these issues myself, but I guess the only way through it is to go on figuring things out.
I went to one day of a Nate Bowers clinic last week - he never is impatient with a horse and they just start trusting him. He reiterates that you get further by releasing quicker, even if it's too soon. That's my philosophy too, but somehow having to use a bit has messed me up - I haven't ridden with a bit in 10 years.
Oh well, there's my thoughts. We went the furthest yet down the trail - about 3 miles total. Such a wonderful thing to be able to do. I realized as she was trotting along towards home that I was living a dream I've had almost my whole life - so many times it didn't work out, but here I am now with my perfect horse, a pretty nice cart, a pretty nice harness, a perfect day and... WOW!!!
Thinking about why it was better than the last few drives...
I guess the best results come from doing a program of spending time with her and Diesel in the last couple of weeks - I've been taking them for 2 mile walks together (to improve fitness of all three of us).
Seems our worst drives are when I yank her out of her do-nothing routine, put her in the trailer and take her to an event (no big surprise there). Our best drives are when I've spent some time improving our relationship (while not hitched).
Deerflies are gone so I can now actually get out there with them!
The last few drives she's been pulling like a freight train - or I guess I'm pulling like a freight train but what do you do when she is wound up too tight and her legs won't quit?
I've been watching some of my friends drive and they seem to sit relaxed with their hands down on their knees, horse is relaxed. It's the first drive since I wrecked my shoulder again a couple of weeks ago, so a good time to try that.
I already know I get the best stops and slowdowns just by thinking them. The worst ones are when I'm yelling WHOA and pulling with a whole lotta pull - but as I said, what do I do when all she wants to do is run? When she's already been running for an hour - she doesn't get tired.
I think it is in both our heads - we both get wound up. I watched video of us from a few weeks ago - she does everything I ask but her preference would be to just canter or trot FAST!
I also realize that I get bored when she walks (very bad)!
So my plan was to stay soft, squeeze one rein at a time (from previous advice here last spring), require her to walk at the beginning, and avoid getting hardline and impatient. Even though I must have asked her to walk about 50 times, then she would jump right back up into a jog, trot or racing trot. I used the technique of allowing her to make the mistake, correcting, then going back to neutral and allowing her to make the decision to make the mistake again. Over and over and over and over............!!!!! But I did not become impatient. When she was ignoring me, I would just pull her head further around with one rein until she slowed down, then release again.
Anyways it was a great drive, probably one of our better ones. Her head stayed down and she mostly stayed soft - so did I!
I know I've created some of these issues myself, but I guess the only way through it is to go on figuring things out.
I went to one day of a Nate Bowers clinic last week - he never is impatient with a horse and they just start trusting him. He reiterates that you get further by releasing quicker, even if it's too soon. That's my philosophy too, but somehow having to use a bit has messed me up - I haven't ridden with a bit in 10 years.
Oh well, there's my thoughts. We went the furthest yet down the trail - about 3 miles total. Such a wonderful thing to be able to do. I realized as she was trotting along towards home that I was living a dream I've had almost my whole life - so many times it didn't work out, but here I am now with my perfect horse, a pretty nice cart, a pretty nice harness, a perfect day and... WOW!!!