Chaos Ranch
Well-Known Member
I've seen so many "I Support __" and "We Support ____" signs and statements in recent years that it prompted me to think about something. This is not at all meant to offend anyone, it's meant to motivate a change.
Everywhere you go now you see "We support our troops", "We support Breast Cancer Awareness", "We support (fill in the blank) magnetic ribbons, bumper stickers, t-shirts, that's all fine, but do you actually DO anything to support them? Is the mere profession of your belief and support enough? Those troops over there can't see your bumper sticker. Your magnetic ribbon doesn't make the cancer patient less sick when they are on their way home from chemo. That gay rights shirt doesn't heal the bruises on the bodies and souls of a bashing victim.
We Support our Troops. Ok, great...it's a wonderful thing to do. You should support them. It's actually you're responsibility to support them, if they are risking their lives, giving up their family, years of their life, or even their life all-together, the least you should be doing is supporting them. But don't profess it if you do nothing to actually support them. Get addresses of some troops. Send them letters, cards, emails, care packages. Thank them. Listen to them. Talk to them. Take care of their families back home, Try to be an America worth fighting for and coming home to.
We Support Breast Cancer Awareness. You should. Breast cancer, and many other cancers are sneaking in and stealing our loved ones lives, health, and finances at a break-neck speed. But do you actually DO something to support it? Do you help them with their bills? Their daily struggles? Do you donate to foundations? Do you volunteer anywhere? Do you pray for them? Do you help them get back and forth to the many appointments they have to go to? Do you call them and check on them, and do you make yourself available as support, assistance, and strength? Go mow their lawn. Trim their trees. Go cook supper for their families. Rent a movie and watch it with them. Take their children out to the park or movies. Those things that seem little, and not that big of a deal to you, to a cancer warrior, are the things that actually do supporting them.
We Support Animal Rights. Ok, that's good to do. But don't forget human rights as well. When the penalty for raping a horse is worse than raping a child, shame should fall on us all. When you can go to prison the very first time you abuse an animal, yet can abuse a child, woman, man, and get away with it for years, something has short-wired somewhere. I do not condone animal abuse in any way, but when the laws and penalties protect animals more than they protect humans, we should be ashamed. Protect the animals, but don't stand stronger for them than you do your own children, wives, husbands, parents. How do you support animal rights? Do you volunteer at the local pound? Do you use your own finances to help pay to spay/neuter/provide healthcare to an abandoned/seized animal? Do you help with the fund raisers? Do you turn a blind eye to a friend/family member who may be abusing an animal because you don't want to make trouble?
The same goes for human rights. Do you fight for stronger laws against rape, murder, abuse, and all the other vile offences that plague our loved ones? Do you form groups as an outlet for those suffering? Do you consider adoption of children desperate for families to belong to? Do you donate to children's homes? Big brother/big sister? Do you look inside your own walls and see computers, game systems, and cell phones between you and your own family? It all starts at home, at least it should. Fight to change a law to protect, fight to raise money to help abandoned children, fight to protect abused women and children who feel no one cares, no one will protect them, no one will help them. It is difficult to put yourself in their position when you have so much, but can you feel comfortable having so much when someone's child, parent, grandparent has so little? Call them, go visit them. Take them to dinner and pay for it. Go pay their light bill without telling them who did it. Anonymously doing something to help is a way to help prevent reliance and dependence, yet promotes assistance and compassions.
So, what's my rant all about? Don't just say you support something. All talk and no action is the most dangerous and widely used weapon used to murder change. Do something. Volunteer somewhere. Write letters to congress. Create a support group, even an online yahoo group or facebook page. Write to your troops, support their families emotionally, physically, and mentally, and every way you can. Donate to charities instead of getting that new phone, car, or other luxury that those you're professing to support are doing without. Know someone struggling? Help them! It doesn't have to be a large cause to make a difference, give them some money, pay a bill for them, invite them to supper, take their family to the movies, do something.
Compassion with no action is called guilt. I am guilty of it, and I am sure others are as well. I could do more. I will do more. Be the change you want to see... that statement is another we should produce, not just profess.
If you already do some of these things to support causes, you are a true hero. The real meaning of hero. You don't have to wear a uniform, carry a badge, or get a write up in the paper to be a hero. All you have to do is take a step forward, offer a hand, a shoulder, an action. A hero is one who sacrifices or risks ones own life or comforts to aid another. Which is a more valuable trophy to you, a new cell phone, car, computer, or the honor, respect, and appreciation of another human being?
Take 5 minutes and think about the things you are aware of right now that need to be supported. A family that needs help. A military member or familiy that you know of, a heart that's broken, a family that's struggling financially, an animal that's hungry and suffering, and make a list of the things you think about. Read over your list and think about all the changes that need to be made to help that particular entry, and do one of them. Please, even if you do just one, it will be a change we need to see.
Everywhere you go now you see "We support our troops", "We support Breast Cancer Awareness", "We support (fill in the blank) magnetic ribbons, bumper stickers, t-shirts, that's all fine, but do you actually DO anything to support them? Is the mere profession of your belief and support enough? Those troops over there can't see your bumper sticker. Your magnetic ribbon doesn't make the cancer patient less sick when they are on their way home from chemo. That gay rights shirt doesn't heal the bruises on the bodies and souls of a bashing victim.
We Support our Troops. Ok, great...it's a wonderful thing to do. You should support them. It's actually you're responsibility to support them, if they are risking their lives, giving up their family, years of their life, or even their life all-together, the least you should be doing is supporting them. But don't profess it if you do nothing to actually support them. Get addresses of some troops. Send them letters, cards, emails, care packages. Thank them. Listen to them. Talk to them. Take care of their families back home, Try to be an America worth fighting for and coming home to.
We Support Breast Cancer Awareness. You should. Breast cancer, and many other cancers are sneaking in and stealing our loved ones lives, health, and finances at a break-neck speed. But do you actually DO something to support it? Do you help them with their bills? Their daily struggles? Do you donate to foundations? Do you volunteer anywhere? Do you pray for them? Do you help them get back and forth to the many appointments they have to go to? Do you call them and check on them, and do you make yourself available as support, assistance, and strength? Go mow their lawn. Trim their trees. Go cook supper for their families. Rent a movie and watch it with them. Take their children out to the park or movies. Those things that seem little, and not that big of a deal to you, to a cancer warrior, are the things that actually do supporting them.
We Support Animal Rights. Ok, that's good to do. But don't forget human rights as well. When the penalty for raping a horse is worse than raping a child, shame should fall on us all. When you can go to prison the very first time you abuse an animal, yet can abuse a child, woman, man, and get away with it for years, something has short-wired somewhere. I do not condone animal abuse in any way, but when the laws and penalties protect animals more than they protect humans, we should be ashamed. Protect the animals, but don't stand stronger for them than you do your own children, wives, husbands, parents. How do you support animal rights? Do you volunteer at the local pound? Do you use your own finances to help pay to spay/neuter/provide healthcare to an abandoned/seized animal? Do you help with the fund raisers? Do you turn a blind eye to a friend/family member who may be abusing an animal because you don't want to make trouble?
The same goes for human rights. Do you fight for stronger laws against rape, murder, abuse, and all the other vile offences that plague our loved ones? Do you form groups as an outlet for those suffering? Do you consider adoption of children desperate for families to belong to? Do you donate to children's homes? Big brother/big sister? Do you look inside your own walls and see computers, game systems, and cell phones between you and your own family? It all starts at home, at least it should. Fight to change a law to protect, fight to raise money to help abandoned children, fight to protect abused women and children who feel no one cares, no one will protect them, no one will help them. It is difficult to put yourself in their position when you have so much, but can you feel comfortable having so much when someone's child, parent, grandparent has so little? Call them, go visit them. Take them to dinner and pay for it. Go pay their light bill without telling them who did it. Anonymously doing something to help is a way to help prevent reliance and dependence, yet promotes assistance and compassions.
So, what's my rant all about? Don't just say you support something. All talk and no action is the most dangerous and widely used weapon used to murder change. Do something. Volunteer somewhere. Write letters to congress. Create a support group, even an online yahoo group or facebook page. Write to your troops, support their families emotionally, physically, and mentally, and every way you can. Donate to charities instead of getting that new phone, car, or other luxury that those you're professing to support are doing without. Know someone struggling? Help them! It doesn't have to be a large cause to make a difference, give them some money, pay a bill for them, invite them to supper, take their family to the movies, do something.
Compassion with no action is called guilt. I am guilty of it, and I am sure others are as well. I could do more. I will do more. Be the change you want to see... that statement is another we should produce, not just profess.
If you already do some of these things to support causes, you are a true hero. The real meaning of hero. You don't have to wear a uniform, carry a badge, or get a write up in the paper to be a hero. All you have to do is take a step forward, offer a hand, a shoulder, an action. A hero is one who sacrifices or risks ones own life or comforts to aid another. Which is a more valuable trophy to you, a new cell phone, car, computer, or the honor, respect, and appreciation of another human being?
Take 5 minutes and think about the things you are aware of right now that need to be supported. A family that needs help. A military member or familiy that you know of, a heart that's broken, a family that's struggling financially, an animal that's hungry and suffering, and make a list of the things you think about. Read over your list and think about all the changes that need to be made to help that particular entry, and do one of them. Please, even if you do just one, it will be a change we need to see.