UpDate!!
I went last night and she talked alot again, sometimes childlike, sometimes like an adult..
They had given her icecream and a Pepsi yesterday and she did fine(1st she had eaten in a week) so they brought her dinner and said she can do it if you will help her. So I went to hand her fork and she said " You do it". I really wanted to get some food in her so I did feed her, she ate 1/2 her green beans and some peaches and took 1 bite of turkey /gravy and mashed potatoes/gravy and said "Yuk"!!
Once when the nurse came in my MIL ( Judy) said to the nurse " Hi Judy" the nurse said " My name isnt Judy, your name is Judy" MIL said "Who am I" Nurse said Judy and MIL said and you are Nancy!! ( that is the nurses name) so she is putting things together..
She also called out for Cory (my son)" I want Cory" I told her he cant come til she gets better and she said " Does he love me"? I told her Yes of course and she said "OK"..
She wants us to hold her hand alot and says " Dont leave me in a little pitiful voice... I wonder if she isnt Twelling on something that happened in her past and she was scared so is afraid we will leave her?
They think they have figured out why she had the stroke. They said she has a alot of plaque in her 2 arteries above her heart so if a piece of plaque came off then that would have caused the blood clot then the stroke.
So now we are waiting for a consult with a vascular surgeon to see if he thinks she will need another surgery to clean out all that plaque.. We dont want her to have another surgery BUT they also said this could happen again, the plaque could come loose and here we would go again. At least she was in the hospital when this happened, we might not be so lucky next time..
My husband just came from there today and they had her sitting up in a chair, she was trying to remember everyones b-days.. She was remembering the months pretty good but she kept saying the 31st for everyones b-days ( they Dont all fall on the 31st) LOL
When my husband asked if she remembered me being there last night she said " she brought me dinner" so she does remember me feeding her...
I hope we are on the road to recovery, if not a full one, then hopefully as close as we can get..
Thanks for the prayers and good thoughts, I really appreciate it...
Missy