Hey Lisa,
Welcome to the world of Long Ears!
Donkeys are very loyal animals. If you love them, they love you back 10 fold. My Jack is one of the sweetest animals on the place. He loves to have his ears rubbed. He also likes to have his cheeks scratched, either set, he doens't care!
Donkeys are a whole different animal. They are not stubborn as most think but are actually thinkers. If they don't think it is safe they are NOT going to do it. No matter how much you try to persuade them.
Mine is a fantastic driving machine. He loves to go. Getting him to stop is another thing all together.
I know Tony has a jack on his sale page. He could always become a gelding
. I am going to be making a trip to Tony's place probably within the next 2-3 weeks. I could always bring him closer to you.
There is also a friend of mine that has a 33" spotted jack that could be a gelding. If you want more info, let me know.