I just got home and can say this was a very disappointing Convention all the way around.
We had NO CHANCE to discuss or ask questions on certain issues in the committee meetings were told by directors make sure to bring it up in YOUR GENERAL meeting the key word there being YOUR- General meeting well let me tell you they could not have shut it down any faster it was almost like a magic act one minute they are there the next they are gone.
It seemed like a very stratigic move to ensure the discussion never came up. THey might not have wanted to answer they might not have wanted to hear but the reality is this is our meeting and our membership it does not belong to 17 people. We had and have the right to be heard and ask questions. If they would have allowed 3 people to talk and ask and vent instead of running out of the room in avoidence I do feel many would not wonder what/why the need for the secrets . In any meeting it is customary for 3 people to talk -people go out of there way to get there to Convention- talk to directors as they are told to bring it up and then have no chance to speak - while the BOD may feel it is hashing over the same thing the members have not had a chance to hash over anything and now have to wait another year.
Talk to your directors.. what a joke call me negative.. (apparently many directors spent a bit of time calling me much worse )
I am simply saying it like it happened. One of my area directors listened and asked questions I wanted answered. THe other one.. I never even spoke to her she overheard my conversation with my other director.. then promptly went out and sat down and told others(including more directors) I needed to shut up I had no right to be questioning anything... Amazing my director feels those in her area have no rights to info... After sitting in the board meeting for a few years now I know which directors I will choose to talk to. They may not always agree with me and might not vote how I want but it is not what they want or I want it is what the majority wants after all that is who they represent.. US
Interestingly enough .. the OPEN board meeting shut down after very little open time.. and during the 2 hours it was open there were several breaks and a dinner break. They did not discuss private things the entire time in closed session in fact I was told so by 2 directors...
Obviously the info we all had was very worriesome to the board.. to hear it is being taken care of well ...... we have heard that before. To be treated as if nothing should be reported on these boards and to hear what a majority of the 17 feel of these forums.. well that is a whole other subject and those actions only lead to more distrust.
Now to the positive.... I will say this I heard one director question things that were not right and dig deeper when given the usual round about no answer answer. Not that it got them far but they tried
I heard 3 directors use the sentence MY AREA WANTS before they voted on one issue so that was refereshing
I am thankful to one director and his wife well make that 2 directors and there wives for spending the time to really explain to me there want and reasoning behind some of the rule proposals. Going into detail as to why they feel something truly is for the betterment of the registry I did not always agree with them even after they took the time to go over there side but I am very appreciative of the time they took to help me understand some issues and there own reasonings and beliefs.
Many left those rooms saying the same thing.. change must happen this is our regsitry and we need to work together as a group and stay banded together to ensure our rights and needs as members are being met and that our directors work for us - again not as individuals or private agendas but for us and our areas as a whole and if they are not doing that rally and find and elect someone who will it is your only chance to have a voice.
And trust me you do not want that voice to belong to one of the directors saying you have no right to be heard. I am sure the not so positive things about me will continue to fly and that is ok this is not about me this is about doing what is specificed in our rule book we have by laws and general rules for a reason.
This is about our directors accepting the fact that .. be it the show person,or client- or trainer or friend.. or the small breeder or backyard pet owner all who pay the same dues and registration fees getting the same respect from those we elect to represent us.
I agree directors do not always get the respect they deserve it is not an easy job they can not please everyone. However it is very hard to earn respect when it is not always given and hearing the things I did this year (and not just about me lol I have thick skin) it is understandable why the respect is not always given on both sides.
A final note the most positive thing that came out of this Convention in my opinion is that many people who have perhaps even been on different sides of many issues are coming together from both ASPC and AMHR
and we as members are realizing the power truly does belong with us as a united group. And that together we can move forward and ensure we are part of the process
I encourage all of you to go to an open board meeting when you can it is a truly eye opening and education experience on being able to hear the reasoning and other thoughts you may not have had and being able to understand the reasons for things being passed or not and to truly watch your directors in action which enables you to make a very informed decision when it comes time for elections.
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